Dildos For Beginners

If you have never used a dildo before, and are curious about them, then here is a simple guide to help give you some insight on dildos, how to use them, and how the feel. There are many different materials and styles of dildos, all with the purpose of pleasure and sensations you will love to share with your partner, or keep to yourself. Sex toys are wonderful things, and dildos are definitely part of that!

Dildo's are great for women who are working their way into the wonderful world of sex toys, have no previous experience, and are not sure what they like. Unlike other sex toys, dildo's do not vibrate, but they do have features that make them real, comfortable and sexy.

If you are not used to sex toys, and if this is your first dildo, try starting at your comfortable width. Measure your man and use that width, or if you are not sure, perhaps try a thinner width like 1 inch. This way you can experience sex toys inside you, and get to know your own body comfortably. Take your time, and when it comes time when you are craving something bigger, then look around and try the next size up.

If you are experienced with sex toys, then you might already know what you like. If this is your first dildo, even though you like sex toys, then can pick a larger size and should not have a problem. Perhaps try something 1.5 inches to 2 inches wide, as dildo sex toys are different than other sex toys, but they still have your cravings in mind.

To use a dildo for the first time, try and keep it simple, like a standard dildo. Lubricate the dildo, and lay on your back. Place the dildo up to your vagina. Massage the lips and the clitoris, and slowly insert the dildo into your vagina. Move it around, and massage your vagina and probe it as deep as feels good. Learn your body, and experiment with your sex toys. Find out what really feels good for you, and where the sensations are mostly felt. When you decided what feels nice, and how you like to use your dildo, then try a newer model.

There are many dildo sex toys to choose from, try something ballsy if you want something new. Ballsy dildos are usually life like, with large testicles as a base. The base usually has a flat surface on the underside so you can stand it up if you like. There are also dildos that have a suction cupped base, so you can suction these sex toys to a chair, or the ledge of the bathtub for tub time fun.

If you like a squishy, fun, feminine dildo, then try a jelly dildo. These dildo sex toys are slick, and slippery when wet. You will enjoy a jelly dildo sex toys, as you can squeeze them with your vagina muscles as hard as you want, which is also great exercise.

If you want to try something realistic, go for a Cyberskin dildo. Cyberskin sex toys are the most realistic available. They are soft, smooth and feel like skin. Using a cyberskin dildo, you may even forget it is not a real man! Cyberskin sex toys are high class, and higher priced, but well worth it.
Some dildos are smooth, and some are rigid with bumps, veins, and folds for added stimulation and sensation.

This is only a simple guide to dildo sex toys. If you have more questions, don't be shy to contact the customer service of the shop you are looking at. They are there to help, and should be able to answer your questions about sex toys. If they cannot answer them, them perhaps that is not the shop for you. If the customer service portion of any website cannot answer your questions about the products they are selling, then they must not really be passionate about what they do.

Welcome to the unique and exciting world of sex toys, and enjoy the sex toys you choose.

Why People Use Anal Toys

When most people think of anal toys, they probably think of wired, kinky, sex addicts or people who just like things a little different. In reality, there are a ton of regular, old fashioned people who enjoy the added pleasure of anal toys. Once you open the door to this exciting and adventurous world, you will find not only do anal sex toys add so much more pleasure and sensations to your sex play, but also that it is not always a kinky, wild sex adventure for porn stars.

There are many kind of anal toys, ranging from simple butt plugs and curved butt plugs, anal beads, vibrating and multi-speed vibrating butt plugs and anal beads, anal tools, and inflatable anal probes. All of these toys are great and are designed specifically with your need for more pleasure in mind. Sure all these toys are great, but why do people actually use anal toys?

Well, the anus is a muscle filled with sensitive nerve endings. When you place an anal toy inside, a whole new feeling is created. You will feel something you've never felt before, and that is one reason why people play with anal toys!

The sensitive nerve endings are located just inside the opening of the anus, which results in most anal toys being wide at the base, and thinning at the top. The wide base can push on all the nerves creating a stimulating experience, and the tip will slide in easily.

Another reason people use anal toys is because the internal wall of the rectum is backed by the anterior wall of the vagina in women. This means when an anal toy is inserted in a female, the vagina canal is reduced in width. This makes penal or sex toy penetration feel way tighter, and a lot better.

For men, curved butt plugs or anal toys are used because they will reach and apply pressure to the prostate, which triggers great sexual arousal. This can send men flying to orgasm quickly and very strongly.

When experimenting with anal sex toys for your first time, great care should be taken. The tissue that makes up the rectum is very delicate, and can be ripped easily. This is unlikely if you follow these few pointers.

The first time you play with anal toys, start small! The opening of the anus is called the exterior sphincter. Right inside this is the interior sphincter, and both are muscles. Over time, these muscles, like any other, can be trained to accept different levels of pressure. So if you start with a small, thin butt plug, and over time you slowly move to a larger sized anal toy, until you eventually reach a large size, your anus muscle will learn to accept these toys and give you nothing but pleasure!

So besides starting small, only use toys you are comfortable with, and with time and once you are used to one toy, then move on to another. You don't want to expose yourself to too many different objects right off the bat, as this could also rip your rectum tissues. As long as you are careful, you will be fine!

If you are playing with inflatable anal toys, take care in not inflating too much. You only want to inflate as much as you need to either tighten your vaginal canal, or you can feel it on your rectum. You will know when the inflated toys is a the right size for you. Try not to push it any more than that.

Besides these few tips, safety is important of course. Play gently at first and then roughen up as your bum allows. Remember also that your anus does not naturally lubricate itself, so specialized anal lube if a must.

anal lube is different then other lubricants because it is thicker and will stay on the sex toy better. Regular lubricants will smear right all the anal toy if you try and insert it. Anal lube won't smear off, it will stay in a thick layer around the toy. Anal lube is water based and totally safe.

Because the anus is not self-lubricating, it also does not clean itself. You may want to invest in an anal douche it many hours of anal play is in store. Cleaning your anus properly will help repair tissue that may have been lightly damaged, and stop infection. Also, it is simply just nice to have a clean bum!

Anal toys are fun, and will show you a new pleasure unknown to anyone who does not try it for themselves. It is a feeling that is unmatched by any other, and once you experience it for yourself, you will never go back! At first it will be uncomfortable, but after a couple tries, most women swear by anal sex, and will never go back to regular old sex!

Sex furniture

Sex is fun, healthy and great exercise, and sharing it with someone you care about makes it that much better. Sometimes sex can be very tiering, or just get kinda boring, and it's natural for these things to happen. All it means is you need to spice things up again! This can be as easy as introducing sex toys into your sexy time, or trying some kinky role playing. Besides that, there is another option which will help make things more interesting. Why not try getting an erotic sex sling, or a kinky sex chair? A fun way to get your juices flowing at an incredible rate!

There are a few kinds of sex slings available. There is one called "Super Strap" that is an adjustable, red nylon sling with plush faux-fur lining around the neck and cuffs. This is an incredibly soft piece of furniture that goes around the neck of the person on their back, and reaches up to cuff around the ankles. You can also use it for other positions, get creative!

This sex sling will help your legs from tiering and help you be able to keep them up for longer. Keep pounding away, and let this sex sling help you control your body! You could also use it on your wrists instead of ankles. Why not try one and see what it does for you.

There is another kind of sex sling called the "Do It Doggie Harness". This one is the perfect aid for doggy style fun. A soft, supple material, this harness is placed in front of the womans pelvis and there are two handles for the man to hold onto. This will make deep penetration easier for both partners. The man can pump harder as he has something to hold onto, and the woman helps him pump harder as it is easier for her to stay in place. This is only one way top use this sex sling, get creative and find out all the others. This harness also comes with a free mask to heat up your sexy fun. Adjustable straps for different lengths of handle.

If it's not a harness your after, why not try an inflatable bondage chair? These are so much fun, and can make play way more comfortable and interesting! Simply inflate the chair and decide who's up first! Sit down and have your partner strap your wrists and your ankles to the soft, bouncy chair and have some wild and kinky sex! Features 6 Velcro restraints in total and a head/back rest. This sexy must-have for any bedroom is made from extremely durable PVC rubber designed for sturdy construction. Go on, have some sexy restraining fun!

There are also sex pillows you can try. Some are simply triangle shaped that wedge either under your bottom while lying on your back, and this raises your pelvis for a great angle of penetration. Or you can prop up your hips and lie on your front for some help with doggy style sex. These are cheap and easy for anyone. Definitely a good idea if you or your partner is prone to a sore back, as it will help shape your spine delicately during sex for a more comfortable position.

There is another kind of pillow which is a strong, inflatable pillow with a velvet touch, soft exterior. This pillow is designed for sex, as all the pressure points of your body are supported by this ergonomically shaped pillow. This lovely piece of furniture is great for trying new positions that might be a little uncomfortable, or sex on the floor! Durable and sturdy, this pillow is a must-have for those couples with a creative spark, and a will to try something new!

One more useful piece of kinky extras is a super love sheet. This sheet is a king sized sheet made out of a durable vinal, perfect of sloppy sex! You can lube each other up and slip and slide all offer the sheet with no soaking through or mess underneath. This versatile sheet can be used on the bed, a chair, a table, the floor, or anywhere sex takes place! Wipe it down, fold it up and store it easily in any closet, or under the bed! A great way of having messy wet and gooey sex!

Out of all these great sex items, anyone can try any of them! That's the great thing about sex furniture, even the elderly can use them! Start with one piece of furniture, and move to another. Why not try them all! All these pieces of furniture are great for creative minds who love new positions. Try 'em all and see which one you love best!

Comparing Sex Toys: Glass Dildos vs. Crystalessence Material

Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes, and a wide variety of materials. But which one do you buy? How do you know? Well, if it's a toss up between a glass dildo and a crystalessence one, then here is a comparison to show you the pros and cons of each.

Crystalessence Spiral Vibrator

This vibrators is made out of Crystalessence material, which is a high grade, firm, translucent jelly. It is more sturdy than regular jelly, but is still flexible and bendable. This material does not retain heat and cold, and because of it's density, it muffles vibrations slightly.

There is a vibrating bullet near the head of the penis, inside the jelly with a wire running down the inside. The wire exits at the base of the shaft, and attaches to a hand held controller. The wire from the base to the battery pack measures about 2 feet long. The controller is the batter pack, which requires 2 AA batteries, not included. It has a multi-speed dial, ranging from slow a slow tease, to a strong, steady vibration.

The base of the vibrator is a pair of detailed, sculpted testicles. They act as a platform for which you can stand your vibrator up right. The shaft is straight, not curved. The tip of the vibrator is also sculpted to be the head of a penis. There are beautiful purple and white spirals of color running through the shaft. The shaft measures 6 inches long and 1.5 inches wide.

The crystalessence sex toy is easy to clean as it is more hygienic than regular jelly. Soap and hot water, or sex toy cleaner will do just fine. You do need to use proper lubrication for this vibrator, for easy insertion and comfort.

This toy has the look of glass, without the price of glass.

Glass Vibrating G-Spot Lover

This dildo is made from Pyrex, a very strong, shatter resistant glass. The pro to having a glass sex toy is that it will retain temperature very well. If you put this dildo in the freezer for a couple of minutes, or run it under hot water quickly or 5-10 seconds in the microwave, it will retain those thermal conditions for a more unique sexual experience.

The shaft of this dildo measures 6 inches long and 1 inch wide. The base of the sex toy is a round ball shape, which measures 1.75 inches diameter. This end can also be inserted for a larger feeing.

This dildo comes with a removable soft, jelly cockring that holds a mini bullet vibrator against it for the vibrating effect. The cock ring is spotted with jelly nodes for added stimulation. The vibrations can be felt lightly through the glass, but mostly when the dildo is thrusting in and out, the clitoris will hit the vibrating cockring and this adds extra stimulation and heightened pleasure. The mini bullet vibrator requires 1 cell battery, which is included.

Tis sex toy is very hygienic, and can be cleaned by sex toy cleaner, soap and water, or boiled. Because of it's totally non-porous nature, after being cleaned, this toy can be shared safely. This sex toy dose not require lubrication, but it is suggested for women who are drier. A small sample of lubrication is included.

The vibrating g-spot lover is curved shaped to stimulate more directly on the g-spot. This sex toy comes with a soft velvety satin bag for discreet storage.

Overall, these are two lovely sex toys both with their pros and cons. The crystalessence material has the look and appeal of glass without the price or properties. It won't retain temperature like glass, but is flexible unlike glass. A little more to the cleaning process, and lubrication is required.

Glass has a more sophisticated, classy look and feel, but is not flexible. It does retain temperature, but requires a cock ring to get the vibrating effect. It also has a bit more of a price tag to reflect the style and beauty. Extremely easy to clean, and safe to share, glass sex toys have a certain appeal that is unmatched by any other.

In the end, if you still can't decided which one is for you, then why not try both! Both have their pros and cons, it all depends on what you want, and what you haven't tried yet!

The Ultimate Masturbator!

Masturbation in men can grow boring, therefore some kind of new toys need to be introduced into the routine. You can buy a personal masturbator, or a nice cyberskin pocket pussy and that will deffinatly help keep things interesting and feeling great. These are a good choice for the next step in masturbation, but what comes next? Is there anything better than a mold of a sexy lil' pussy made from material that feels oh so real? The answer is YES!! The next step to the ultimate, mind blowing, teeth clenching, fist squeezing, toes curling orgasm is the Next Gerneration, Optimum Power, Thrusting Power Climaxer! This thing is a machine, literally! It is the most high tech and sophisticated masturbator out there for any man willing to give her a go!

The basic set up is a plastic cylinder shaped container with a jelly sleeve inside. At the base of the jelly shield is a little plstic peiece to keep your penis from touching the little motor at the base. At the top of the cylinder is the opeing where you put your penis, and it is fitted with a removable, detailed cyberskin anaus molded opening. Attached to it all by a 2 foot wire is a hand held batery pack with a multi-speed slider. And the final piece is the removable, hand held pump.

OK, so first of all you lube up your penis for comfortable insertion into the tight softouch plus anus. Once inside, turn on the masturbator and feel the textured jelly noduals dance around our penis, tickling and stroking you. The jelly sleeve is attached to a small motor with a little electric arm that moves up and down to do the thrusting so you don't have to. Find your prefered thrusting speed, and attach the pump. Now pump until the right suction pressure is felt. Now oh does that not feel great?

The high grade pump bulb is fitted on a non-crimping tube, so it won't ruin if it is bent or squished, and it also has a quick release valve for safety. The pump tube measures almost 2 feet. The main cylinder measures almost 8 inches long with 4 inches translucent, and 4 inches wide. The hand held controller measures 6 inches long and 1.5 inches wide. The cyberskin anus opening measures 3.5 inches long and 2.5 inches wide. There is a plastic lid to cover the top when not in use. This sex toy takes 4 AA batteries which are not included.

There is nothin that creates a sensation like this bad boy dose. It sucks, it tickles, it thrusts, and it masturbates all at your prefered speed and pressure. Go fast for a quick orgasm, or slow it down and take your time for a real exotic sexual expierience! The cyberskin top is a silky, velvety feeling and is removable for easy cleaning. Clean before and after use. No matter who you are or what you do, this masturbator is for you!

Ass Palm Pal

This male masturbator was such a good investment for me. I always just liked pussy, but I decided to try this butt-like masturbator for a change. I've never had real anal sex, but I might try it now after loving the tightness of this sex toy.

It is made out of UR3-Ultra Realistic 3.0 material, which is pretty much a silicone/jelly mix. It is kind of translucent, but it's rather kind of cloudy, and purple. The material is very soft and smooth, and very velvety to the touch. It feels a little powdery also, but that is because to maintain the material this adult toy is made from, you need to dabble talcum (or baby) powder on the surface and wrap it in plastic so it dose not dry out. The toy comes already lightly powdered from the manufacturer, but you will need to continue applying the powder.

The front opening is molded to visually reproduce an anus hole. So it's kinda wrinkled and bumpy, although it is purple, it's not 100% real looking. The hole is also very tight like a real ass, but stretches nicely and tightly around your manhood when you push it in. Use a water based lube for this toy, a silicone based lube with ruin your toy. The tunnel inside the toy is bumped instead of ribbed and can really be felt. The bumps kind of massage your penis while you thrust in and out.

Once lubed up, you can thrust yourself as fast as you want with the help of the easy grip design. The outside of the masturbator is kinda ribbed with large finger slots and the other end of the tunnel is open, so you can push yourself inside as deep as you want. The open end helps for clean up too, because you can just stick the tip right through just before you blow your load. This sex toy is completely waterproof, so for even easier cleanup, you can just use it in the shower. After you use it, just wash it down with soap and water, or you can use sex toy cleaner.

This toy is great to use with a partner as well. If they don't really feel 'in the mood' for sex, then you can just ask them to use the masturbator on you. Then you get the togetherness of having your partner there, and you can still reach a very pleasureful orgasm. So if you are used to using masturbators and want a tighter one, or if you are trying something new, this is a great investment. It's super flexible, bendable, tight and soft, and ready for you every time.

The Different Types of Lubrication

There are many different types of lubrication out there, so what kind should you get? Don't be over whelmed or confused, here is an article to help you determine which type to use for your own needs.

First of all, the different types of lubrication's you can get are: water based lube, flavored lube, silicone based lube, petroleum based and anal lube. They each contain similar ingredients, but some are recommended for sex toys, and some are not. Some are ingestible, and some are not. Here's a closer look.

Water Based Lube
Water based lubrication is the most popular kind because it is safe for use anytime. It mimics natural body fluids, and is sex toy, condom and compatible and ingestible. They usually contain deionized water, glycerin and propylene glycol which are the ingredients which make it slippery and wet.

Water based lube is pretty runny, and will gradually absorb into the skin. This can put a temporary hold on sexual intercourse or masturbation, but there is no need to apply more lube, just add a little water or saliva and it will reactivate the wetness.

There are also natural, sugar-free, water based lubes that contain vegetable glycerin, purified water and hemp seed oil as the slippery ingredients.

Water based lubes are the one to pick if you are a women with vaginal dryness conditions, in particular is a brand called "Astroglide". This brand has been specially formulated for women.

Also, warming lubes are mostly water based. They can be used other places than just the penis and vagina. Try rubbing on the nipples or behind the ears for a sensual experience, or warming lube can be used to rub and warm sore muscles.

Flavored Lube
Flavored lube is typically water based lube and is flavored with sugar. It is ingestible, sex toy and condom compatible, and almost always nicely scented! The downside is they are flavored with sugar, so you have a pretty sticky mess afterwards. But regardless, flavored lubrication adds a whole new aspect of oral sex. If you find a flavor you really like, whenever you smell that scent, you will think of sex and keep coming back for more!

Silicone Based Lube
This type of lube is not compatible with silicone sex toys, as it will literally melt the toy. It is important to be careful with jelly toys also, because some jelly toys do contain traces of silicone, so it is better to stay away from mixing silicone lubrication with any kind of sex toy, except plastic. Silicone lube is fine with plastic adult toys.

Silicone lube is also great for masturbation, and it is very viscous, and does not get sticky or tacky. It can also be used underwater and will retain it's slippery properties. The long lasting properties and silky texture of silicone lube also makes it a great massage oil.

Silicone lube should not be ingested, and it dose contain actual silicone. Also, it should not be used for anal sex, and the anus does not naturally cleanse itself. It is harder to clean up as it is not water soluble. It may also stain clothing or linen.

Petroleum Based Lube
This type of lube is only recommended for male masturbation, as petroleum should never be ingested or used internally. Petroleum is a type of oil, and is only safe for external use. If it is used internally, it will be very difficult to clean out and get it all off.

Petroleum lube is not at all recommended for use with sex toys as it will completely break down and destroy the material. This type of lube is not very common

Anal Lube
If you are going to use butt plugs or anal toys or condoms, specialized anal lube is highly recommended, as anal lube is a thicker water based lube that coats the anal toy and stays there. This property helps with the thrusting in-and-out motion, as it won't rub off easily.

Also, specialized anal lube won't absorb into the skin as easily as regular water based lube. Anal lube has a higher glycerin content which makes it thicker, and is water soluble. Anal lube is safe for ingestion and internal use.