Anal Sex Toys For Beginners

Some people are squeamish about letting any sex toys get close to this area of their body. Even if you are one of those people, don't you want to “try something at least once”? If the answer is yes, and sex toys around the anus is something you are willing to experience, even if it's just so you can say you have done it, then here are some tips about anal sex toys, what kinds there are, and what you should do with them. Anal sex toys are really not the intimidating, before you start, why not take some time to look through all of the different types, seizes and styles, and get your bearings of what an anal sex toy really is.

First of all, anal sex toys range from all sizes. For beginners, start small. There is no rush into a large, throbbing and inflating anal plug. The anus is a muscle like any other muscle in your body, and muscles need to be trained in order to grow, and especially get comfortable accepting sex toys. The muscle part is mostly just the opening, or the sphincter, which is what need to be trained. Like all muscles, if you go slow and work it in, eventually you can train your anus to love anal sex toys, and the sensations that they deliver.

Start with small anal toys, small ranging from a 0.5 inches to 1.25 inches wide shaft. Anything in this size should be comfortable and easy to insert. Anything larger may be uncomfortable and prove to be too large for a beginner.

Try starting with jelly anal sex toys. These are easier for beginners, as these sex toys are squeezable and squishy, which will be more comforting on the anus. Anything hard like rubber or plastic is very rigid, and will cause discomfort for someone who is not used to inserting a sex toy into their anus. Also, ensure you have sufficient anal lubrication in order to ease insertion. Anal lube is different from other lubrication because it is thicker, and will stay smeared on the sex toy better than regular water based lube. Anal lube is generally water based for easier cleaning.

For beginners, try simply inserting the anal plug of your choice and wearing it during sex. Lay on your back and let your partner do most of the work. This way you will be able to soak up all the sensations and see if you like it. Before you decide if you do like anal sex toys or not, you have to use them a couple of times. The first time will most likely be uncomfortable and awkward. The second time may also be awkward, and the third time you will begin to really feel what it is like. Now that you know what to expect, try moving around a bit, going on top or any of your favorite positions. After about a week, you will be able to really get a feel for anal sex toys, and make a decision weather or not anal sex toys are for you.

If you decide that you do in fact enjoy anal sex toys, then there are a couple of things you should try. Anal beads are a great way of increasing the sensations of your orgasm. Anal beads are small jelly, silicone, rubber, plastic, or metal beads on a string, or a jelly string or some kind of attachment to each other, and have a small retrieval ring on one end. They are most of the time graduated, which means a smaller bead at one end, and they gradually get larger. These are easy to insert, simply lubricate and slide them in. Wear them during intercourse, and right before you orgasm, grab the ring and pull them out. This will stimulate you, and you will experience an orgasm like no other! An orgasm only anal sex toys can deliver!

Once you are used to anal sex toys, and comfortable to try a new step up, then you can move to vibrating anal sex toys. These will stimulate the male prostate gland, which is considered the male G-Spot. An orgasm felt be stimulating this area i different from a regular orgasm. It is more intense and more erotic.

Females using anal sex toys experience a full feeling anus, which in turn pushes against the wall of the vagina, making it feel smaller and tighter. When a woman uses a vibrating anal sex toy, not only does it feel nice on her anus, but the man penetrating her will also feel the vibrations, which definitely benefits both partners.

If you have any question about anal sex toys, how to use them, or simply need a suggestion, be sure to contact the customer service email, phone number, or live chat on the website you are thinking of making a purchase from. That is what they are there for, and they will have no problem answering these some times embarrassing queries you may have.

Why People Use Anal Toys

When most people think of anal toys, they probably think of wired, kinky, sex addicts or people who just like things a little different. In reality, there are a ton of regular, old fashioned people who enjoy the added pleasure of anal toys. Once you open the door to this exciting and adventurous world, you will find not only do anal sex toys add so much more pleasure and sensations to your sex play, but also that it is not always a kinky, wild sex adventure for porn stars.

There are many kind of anal toys, ranging from simple butt plugs and curved butt plugs, anal beads, vibrating and multi-speed vibrating butt plugs and anal beads, anal tools, and inflatable anal probes. All of these toys are great and are designed specifically with your need for more pleasure in mind. Sure all these toys are great, but why do people actually use anal toys?

Well, the anus is a muscle filled with sensitive nerve endings. When you place an anal toy inside, a whole new feeling is created. You will feel something you've never felt before, and that is one reason why people play with anal toys!

The sensitive nerve endings are located just inside the opening of the anus, which results in most anal toys being wide at the base, and thinning at the top. The wide base can push on all the nerves creating a stimulating experience, and the tip will slide in easily.

Another reason people use anal toys is because the internal wall of the rectum is backed by the anterior wall of the vagina in women. This means when an anal toy is inserted in a female, the vagina canal is reduced in width. This makes penal or sex toy penetration feel way tighter, and a lot better.

For men, curved butt plugs or anal toys are used because they will reach and apply pressure to the prostate, which triggers great sexual arousal. This can send men flying to orgasm quickly and very strongly.

When experimenting with anal sex toys for your first time, great care should be taken. The tissue that makes up the rectum is very delicate, and can be ripped easily. This is unlikely if you follow these few pointers.

The first time you play with anal toys, start small! The opening of the anus is called the exterior sphincter. Right inside this is the interior sphincter, and both are muscles. Over time, these muscles, like any other, can be trained to accept different levels of pressure. So if you start with a small, thin butt plug, and over time you slowly move to a larger sized anal toy, until you eventually reach a large size, your anus muscle will learn to accept these toys and give you nothing but pleasure!

So besides starting small, only use toys you are comfortable with, and with time and once you are used to one toy, then move on to another. You don't want to expose yourself to too many different objects right off the bat, as this could also rip your rectum tissues. As long as you are careful, you will be fine!

If you are playing with inflatable anal toys, take care in not inflating too much. You only want to inflate as much as you need to either tighten your vaginal canal, or you can feel it on your rectum. You will know when the inflated toys is a the right size for you. Try not to push it any more than that.

Besides these few tips, safety is important of course. Play gently at first and then roughen up as your bum allows. Remember also that your anus does not naturally lubricate itself, so specialized anal lube if a must.

anal lube is different then other lubricants because it is thicker and will stay on the sex toy better. Regular lubricants will smear right all the anal toy if you try and insert it. Anal lube won't smear off, it will stay in a thick layer around the toy. Anal lube is water based and totally safe.

Because the anus is not self-lubricating, it also does not clean itself. You may want to invest in an anal douche it many hours of anal play is in store. Cleaning your anus properly will help repair tissue that may have been lightly damaged, and stop infection. Also, it is simply just nice to have a clean bum!

Anal toys are fun, and will show you a new pleasure unknown to anyone who does not try it for themselves. It is a feeling that is unmatched by any other, and once you experience it for yourself, you will never go back! At first it will be uncomfortable, but after a couple tries, most women swear by anal sex, and will never go back to regular old sex!

The Different Types of Lubrication

There are many different types of lubrication out there, so what kind should you get? Don't be over whelmed or confused, here is an article to help you determine which type to use for your own needs.

First of all, the different types of lubrication's you can get are: water based lube, flavored lube, silicone based lube, petroleum based and anal lube. They each contain similar ingredients, but some are recommended for sex toys, and some are not. Some are ingestible, and some are not. Here's a closer look.

Water Based Lube
Water based lubrication is the most popular kind because it is safe for use anytime. It mimics natural body fluids, and is sex toy, condom and compatible and ingestible. They usually contain deionized water, glycerin and propylene glycol which are the ingredients which make it slippery and wet.

Water based lube is pretty runny, and will gradually absorb into the skin. This can put a temporary hold on sexual intercourse or masturbation, but there is no need to apply more lube, just add a little water or saliva and it will reactivate the wetness.

There are also natural, sugar-free, water based lubes that contain vegetable glycerin, purified water and hemp seed oil as the slippery ingredients.

Water based lubes are the one to pick if you are a women with vaginal dryness conditions, in particular is a brand called "Astroglide". This brand has been specially formulated for women.

Also, warming lubes are mostly water based. They can be used other places than just the penis and vagina. Try rubbing on the nipples or behind the ears for a sensual experience, or warming lube can be used to rub and warm sore muscles.

Flavored Lube
Flavored lube is typically water based lube and is flavored with sugar. It is ingestible, sex toy and condom compatible, and almost always nicely scented! The downside is they are flavored with sugar, so you have a pretty sticky mess afterwards. But regardless, flavored lubrication adds a whole new aspect of oral sex. If you find a flavor you really like, whenever you smell that scent, you will think of sex and keep coming back for more!

Silicone Based Lube
This type of lube is not compatible with silicone sex toys, as it will literally melt the toy. It is important to be careful with jelly toys also, because some jelly toys do contain traces of silicone, so it is better to stay away from mixing silicone lubrication with any kind of sex toy, except plastic. Silicone lube is fine with plastic adult toys.

Silicone lube is also great for masturbation, and it is very viscous, and does not get sticky or tacky. It can also be used underwater and will retain it's slippery properties. The long lasting properties and silky texture of silicone lube also makes it a great massage oil.

Silicone lube should not be ingested, and it dose contain actual silicone. Also, it should not be used for anal sex, and the anus does not naturally cleanse itself. It is harder to clean up as it is not water soluble. It may also stain clothing or linen.

Petroleum Based Lube
This type of lube is only recommended for male masturbation, as petroleum should never be ingested or used internally. Petroleum is a type of oil, and is only safe for external use. If it is used internally, it will be very difficult to clean out and get it all off.

Petroleum lube is not at all recommended for use with sex toys as it will completely break down and destroy the material. This type of lube is not very common

Anal Lube
If you are going to use butt plugs or anal toys or condoms, specialized anal lube is highly recommended, as anal lube is a thicker water based lube that coats the anal toy and stays there. This property helps with the thrusting in-and-out motion, as it won't rub off easily.

Also, specialized anal lube won't absorb into the skin as easily as regular water based lube. Anal lube has a higher glycerin content which makes it thicker, and is water soluble. Anal lube is safe for ingestion and internal use.

The New Way to Increase Your Orgasm

It is a well known fact that anal stimulation during sexual intercourse increases the intensity of orgasms. Both women and men benefit from the added sensations. The anal area is packed with sensitive nerve endings.
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