Showing posts with label adult sex toys. Show all posts
Showing posts with label adult sex toys. Show all posts

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Forever Foreplay!

Sex is fun, and sex with sex toys is even better. But what bout foreplay? If you are lacking in your sex life, perhaps the problem is a shortage of foreplay! Fore play includes acts such as sexy talk, passionate kissing, smooth massages, tongue teasing, tickling and taunting, naughty nibbling on various body parts: ears, neck, arms, fingers, legs, tummy, bums and so much more.

You can get creative with your foreplay sessions to keep things mixed up and erotic! Incorporate sex toys with your fun foreplay and experience a whole new level of sexy preparation. Use a small vibrator to tease your partners lips, breasts, feet, and both his and her naughty bits! Finger vibrators are great for foreplay as they are worn around one finger, making it easier to loose yourself in the moment without loosing control or dropping the toy!

Sweet feathers can tickle your partner in a sexy way! Gentle tickling is very erotic and stimulating. Get your partner to lay on their back cover their eyes with a silky eye mask. Then use a feather tickler to gently stroke them beginning at the top and slowly working your way down! Having their eyes closed will add to the sensation, making it impossible to resist grabbing you and giving it to you! You may even have to tie them down with some sexy restraints!


Rub your partners feet deeply until they are in a state of total relaxation. Then move up to massage their ankles, knees, thighs and then a slow but steady massage in between the legs! Anything you choose to do should be sexy and stimulating. Keep your partners pleasure in mind, and you'll be surprised how much more you get our of it! Getting prepared for your sexy time with some hot foreplay will add so much exotic and heavy pleasure to the sex, try it and see!

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Wild Nights with Other Couples

Are you looking into having a three-some, or want to experience the thrills of group excitement but are nervous and don't have a clue where to begin? Once you and your partner-couple, or multiple couples, have decided all of you want to try it, then there is one simple way that is fun and will open the door to your most adventurous experience; why not try an adult board game! There are many types of adult board games that are best kept to one couple, however there are equally as many that can be played with multiple couples!

These games are not only super fun, they will help you get more comfortable with the idea of being naked in front of your friends! Call up your closest couple and ask them to come over and play a kinky adult game with the two of you! Add a little alcohol, or keep it straight edge and enjoy an erotic and sensational new way of spending Friday nights!

Not all of these adult board games are incredibly physical and sexual, you can get some that are simple and sexy, yet still rather closed and comfortable. Start small and add a little humor to your group time! Playing an adult board game is a great way of connecting on a more personal level with the couple you desire. Both couples will surely be ready to step it up a notch after playing an exciting, humorous and all around pleasureful adult board game! Include as many couples as you can!

Friday, August 15, 2008

Why Wear a Thong?

These days it seems women's clothing is getting tighter and they are wearing less of it. It may sound like the world is taking a turn for the worst, but if done properly, this can be a very inspiring and sexy thing! Wearing a thong will help you look your best while wearing those tight little mini's and short shorts! Besides being a practical piece of clothing, it is no secret that thongs are all around simply sexy!

If you are unsure about wearing a thong, but are curious about all the buzz, this article breaks down this taboo undergarment into it's different functionality and style categories. This should help you see the brighter side to wearing less underneath, giving you more in the long run!


Everyday Thong

This style of thong is for a practical and comfortable wear. While still being super sexy, this style of thong will keep you feeling “in place” and snug. The elastic waistband provides the perfect fit and support, while the thong style back allows you to wear a sleek work pant or a cute mini skirt and never reveal embarrassing panty lines!


Sexy String Thong

A sexy string thong reveals your curvaceous figure and adds a simple yet incredibly spicy addition to your body! This is the thong that drives men wild, and keeps that slight hint of mystery! Men will beg to sneak a peek of whats underneath! You can be completely naked except a string thong, and this will automatically make you 100% sexier! These thongs are great for enticing and seducing your lover, and make you feel a little sexier also! These thongs can also be worn under your everyday clothing.


Wide Strap Thong

A wide side strap on a thong is great for practical wear and keeping your curves looking great. The perfect alternative to a string thong, the wider strap is comfortable and the thong style is still sexy! These style thongs are similar to everyday thong, only these thongs are made from lace, silk, satin, or any other luscious material. This thong will drop any man to his knees and have him begging for more!


Matching Thong

These thongs come with a matching top piece. Something like a bustier, baby doll, halter, bikini top, or any other type of sexy piece. These outfits are known more as “lingerie”! The top piece is usually the main attraction, followed down the body by the complementing thong. In this case the thong is not the center of attention, but boosts the look and ties the whole outfit together.


Fancy Thong

Planning a special romantic evening for two? Be sure to include dessert, but not just any dessert... you need a Fancy Thong! These thongs may have fringe, beads, diamonds, glitter, tassels or any kind of delicate addition that differentiates this thong from an everyday or a string thong. These thongs are only worn for sexy encounters when you need to look your best!


Fantasy Thong

Bring out your wild, feminine side with a Fantasy thong! This type of thong is also only worn once in a while, as it will have much more detail and flare than a Fancy thong. Fantasy thongs give more creativity to your romantic encounter, and can even lead to role playing! Fun, flirty and all around super sexy, Fantasy thongs are glamorous and enchanting!


Fetish Thong

All things bondage come alive with the addition of a Fetish thong. These thongs are usually made from leather, vynal, rubber or any other unusual material. These thongs are going to be tight and very sexy. They will usually be black colored, but do not have to be. Typically, a fetish style thong matches perfectly with s blindfold and some sexy bondage restraints! These thongs can have chains, zippers or any other decorations that are farm from girlie. These decorations are taunting and fierce, with a flare for dominance!


Vibrating Thong

A girl's best friend! Vibrating thongs add pleasure to everyday occasion. You can wear a vibrating thong while washing dishes, vacuuming, dusting, or get wild and wear one to the grocery store! Vibrating thongs stimulate the clitoris and get her in the mood for more. These thongs can also sometimes accommodate him as well. This means the vibrating piece will rest against the clitoris and the rest will be easy access for him. These thongs are designed for wear during intercourse.


Edible Thong

Purely novelty, these thongs are fun and sexy! Wear this thong and let your lover eat it off you, piece by piece! These thongs come as candy, or as a thin layer of chocolate, strawberry or any flavor of edible material. These thongs make great romantic gifts!

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Sit, Stay! Ideas For Erotic Beginner's BDSM!


Many people have the most unique, deep fantasies, often relating to dominance and submission. These fantasies usually stem from things like embarrassing naughty teacher fetishes as adolescents, or the fiendish and conniving mentality of sly teenagers. So the boy in the corner who purposely forgets his homework simply so the teacher will teach him a lesson, and the bossy girl who makes fun of the weaker ones could easily grow into the most kinky and erotically in-tune adults, and hopefully one day find each other!

Well if this is the case for you, and you've found your discipline partners but are not to sure where to begin, then here are a few ideas of this you and your partner can try to pick things up and get the punishments delivered.

It is usually pretty obvious who is the dominate one and who will play submissive, so once that is sorted, start small. Maybe one of you have some specific requests, for example someone with a foot fetish would prefer sexy shoes or boots, or someone who likes to be blindfolded may require a selection of soft eye covers! These are the small details that will mean the difference between roaring orgasms and frustration.

If you are into bondage, then try getting some sexy restraints. You can get wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs that can be used to hold your partner to a chair, post, the bed etc. Or why not try some silky bondage rope and a book on different rope tying techniques. Then you can practice tying each other up and having your way with them.

If one of you likes to role play, then cute and kinky costumes are a must. Naughty nurse, horny fireman, or perhaps something more detailed like a sweet, innocent maiden versus a blood thirsty demon of the night.

You can also add food to your fetish. Tie him up, beat him down and then gently feed him his dinner. Or get him to tie you up and tease you with strawberries and whipped cream. You can of course be vile about it as well! An idea for her: tie her up with her legs spread so she cannot bring them together, then tie up her hands behind her back and get out her favorite clitoral stimulator or vibrator. Then lube it up, and tease her with some sweet fruit and chocolate. Feed her a piece for a hint of the goodness to come, and the begin taunting her with the vibrator. Using sex toys can be a real sweet treat on its own, but this just adds some eroticism to it all!

So play around with her, poking and probing her with the vibrator, until she can barely handle it. Feed her her fruit occasionally, which will help her mentally link this sweet treat with the sensation between her legs. Also, her not being able to push her legs together will help her reach her orgasm faster, and stronger! The right before she orgasms, give her another piece of fruit and watch her amazing orgasm she will have, an orgasm so grand it will tingle all her senses!

This is just one kinky idea you can do to tease each other. Play around and get creative with your bondage gear and sexy fetishes. If he has a foot fetish, or some kind of fetish that can be tickled with sexy clothing or accessories, then why not lay him down and walk all over him with your spikiest heels and your shortest skirt! Get him to give your heel a good sucking on, and maybe he should be licking and kissing your delicate ankle... then oops! An innocent little kick in the cheek! But make sure you tie him up first, so he can't pounce on you!

Anyway you choose to play, enjoy your partner, and enjoy the sexy things you do together. Keep trying new things, and maybe invest in some kinkier sex toys or some more interesting bondage equipment! There is always bondage furniture you can get, like chairs with built in restraints and so on.

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Male Masturbators


Men need sex toys too, it can't be all only for women! Male masturbators are fantastic sex toys that stimulate and arouse specifically men. Made for men, these sex toys know what you need, where you need it, and how to please it!

Some male masturbator sex toys are designed for visual stimulation as well as physical. These are the ones shaped like or molded from real life pussies. These masturbators are the most life like sex toys available, and high end ones will even feel like real skin. These realistic ones are made from Cyberskin, or Futurotic material, which are the closest materials to real life skin. These sex toys are well worth their money, as the experience of masturbating with a real life, plush, lush and supper soft pussy is one you'll never want to pass up!

Some male masturbator sex toys are made from materials such as jelly and silicone. These can be shaped like vagina's, or maybe something a little more imaginative, like a flower or just a cylinder. These masturbators really get the job done, especially the silicone ones. These are soft, stretch, pliable, flexible, and most importantly, comfortable. These masturbators are not really for visual stimulation, but they are perfect for satisfying you and relieving you of any sexual tension.

Masturbation sleeves are simply cylinder shaped piece of material, like jelly, silicone, latex, rubber, cyberskin etc. that are usually ribbed for added stimulation. These are easy, quick and satisfying. Simply slip your manhood in the masturbation sleeve and begin thrusting.

Lubrication is required for easy insertion, and comfortable thrusting. Silicone lube should not be used for silicone sex toys, as the material can melt. If you do use silicone lube, your experience will be more pleasureful than if you use water based lube, as silicone lube never dries up or stops being slippery. This is the best lube for masturbating, you can go as quick as you want, as rough as you want, and silicone lube will keep up perfectly!

Some male masturbation sex toys have a sucking function. These mimic oral sex, and arouse the man with a light suction. This will feel just like a little virgin girls mouth on your manhood, giving you her first blow job, the best blow job! Well, not necessarily, but it does feel very erotic, and very sensual.

There are male masturbation sex toys that has beads inside the material that massage your penis while you use it. Thrust yourself in and out, and feel the erotic pleasures of the masturbating beads. They usually don't move, but they can move around with the material.

Realistic male masturbation sex toys don't always have to be vagina's either, there are some that are shaped like a pretty girls rear. These masturbation asses are tight and mostly always ribbed. They are made to visually stimulate you, and if you like giving anal sex, then these masturbators are for you!

Which ever you choose, male masturbators will get the job done and satisfy you how ever you need it! Male sex toys are very pleasureful and unique, and have helped men all over the world enjoy their masturbation moments more.

Monday, September 10, 2007

What A Sex Doll Is Really Like

Sex Doll Picture
This article is based on cheaper sex dolls, ranging from $25.00 to about $40.00. The more money you put into your sex doll, like any sex toys, the better quality you will get. For a low end sex doll, this sexy gal sure has enough pleasure packed in to satisfy even the most erotic man, any time of day or night.

Everyone must admit, the best thing about a sex doll is that she will NEVER say no! If you want to take her in the morning, in the afternoon, or right before dinner, she is ready and willing to please, tease and satisfy you. Another great feature of sex dolls is that most of them can come in the shower with you, as they are waterproof.

Made from ultra-soft vinyl, these cheaper sex dolls are pretty durable, but will probably not last for more than 4-5 months of regular use. Once you receive your sex doll, she has to be blown up, preferably with a foot pump. There are two hygienic factory seals you must peel off before you being using her; one covering her anus, and one covering her vagina. This ensures a safe, hygienic sex doll for you. You will also need to use proper lubrication for comfort and easy insertion. Like most sex toys, she is a novelty only and should be respected as one.

Should a rupture should occur in your sex doll, there is a vinyl repair kit enclosed. Follow the instructions to repair your sex doll.

Most of these cheaper sex dolls measure 5'1”, and have a beautiful, real life painted face. Sex doll sex toys have three love holes for you to please, one in her mouth, one in her anus and one in her vagina. Each tunnel measures 5 inches long, varying from doll to doll. The mouth tunnel is colored pink, as well as the vagina, and the anus is the same color as the rest of her, for a more realistic visual effect. For cheaper sex dolls, the rigid edges of the holes may be a little uncomfortable, but using a condom or lining the edges with a soft cloth will help. The holes are reinforced for added durability and strength, so you can go crazy and not break her!

Her breasts are very busty and large, for your visual pleasure! Also, if you like a “titty-fuck”, then her large, heaving breasts are perfect for you. They measure 7 inches long and 5 inches wide, depending on the doll of course. Her nipples are hard and strong for you to suck on and squeeze. You could even get your girl some nipple clamps to spice her up a bit!

Why not mix it up a bit, and use sex toys on your sex doll. Try a inserting a vibrator in her anus while you have your way with the vagina. This will add some extra pleasure for you and your erotic tendencies!

This standard sex doll information is for cheaper sex dolls only. The more money you deiced to spend on your sex doll sex toys, the better quality you will receive. If you want a sex doll that will last you years, then you will be paying around $600.00 - $900.00. These high end sex dolls will also come more life like. Some have sockets on the elbows and knees that can be bent for more flexibility and life-like movements. Also, the expensive sex dolls will have lush openings that will not be uncomfortable for you to penetrate.

The high end sex dolls may also have a real mannequin head with real hair and moving eyes. These dolls can also be seamless and way softer, with real life color and feel. Depending on how much money you spend on your sex doll will depend on what quality you get, just like all sex toys. The less you spend, the less you get. These cheaper sex dolls will do the trick and satisfy you, and also make great gag-gifts. If all you are looking for is a one night stand, or a short couple of months with a companion, then a cheaper gorgeous gal is perfect for you and your budget. You know you are curious, why not indulge in your fantasies, and buy yourself a sex doll!

Friday, September 07, 2007

Pleasure Balls


Pleasure balls are small sex toys that are used by women all over the world. They are part of history, and are said to have originated in Japan. The Japanese women would use them to relieve sexual tension, and store them in a small pouch. Ben Wah balls, or pleasure balls, are small, plastic/metal balls attached together by a cord, or are simply separate and float independently. In Japan, many years ago, they are said to have been made from metal or ivory.

Some pleasure balls are simple, solid balls, and some are known as Duotone Balls, as they have one larger ball, with a smaller, weighted ball inside. The weight will roll around, and the larger outer ball will follow, making the movements erratic and spontaneous.

They are used by women to increase sexual desire, to exercise the vaginal muscles, and to increase sensations felt during sexual intercourse. A woman can wear them all day if she wishes, as long as she can squeeze her muscles and keep them in. A sneeze or a cough can cause the balls to fall out of the vagina.

To use Ben Wa Balls, simply place them inside the vagina, and hold them in by squeezing your muscles. Similar to squeezing your bladder, which is why these have been used by gynecologists to help women with bladder control problems control them. As you go about doing your daily routine, the balls will move around inside, giving you slight teasing sensations. Pleasure balls can be used during intercourse, if done carefully, and may also be used with other sex toys.

A women holding in the pleasure balls in is a form of Kegel exercise, which strengthens the pubococcygeus muscles. This can help control the bladder, and heighten sexual pleasure. Ben Wa Balls are types of sex toys that are solely for women.

During intercourse, wearing your Ben Wah balls will heighten sensations for a man as he will be able to feel them inside the woman. They will roll around his penis and massage him erotically. For the woman, she feel the balls move around inside her as the man pumps in and out. Rough sex is not recommended while wearing pleasure balls.

You can also wear your pleasure balls during masturbation with sex toys. Since Ben Wa Balls are sex toys already, why not add more sex toys! Try wearing your pleasure balls while using a vibrator gently, and massaging yourself while enjoying the internal massaging of the balls.

Mix your pleasure balls with your sex toys, or with your intercourse, or simply wear them to strengthen your vaginal muscles, which will increase your sex in the long run. Ban Wah balls are popular, comfortable and very beneficial for women. See your gynecologist if you are not sure about using Ben Wa Balls. Enjoy your sex toys, and have fun playing with pleasure balls.

Thursday, September 06, 2007

Dildos For Beginners


If you have never used a dildo before, and are curious about them, then here is a simple guide to help give you some insight on dildos, how to use them, and how the feel. There are many different materials and styles of dildos, all with the purpose of pleasure and sensations you will love to share with your partner, or keep to yourself. Sex toys are wonderful things, and dildos are definitely part of that!

Dildo's are great for women who are working their way into the wonderful world of sex toys, have no previous experience, and are not sure what they like. Unlike other sex toys, dildo's do not vibrate, but they do have features that make them real, comfortable and sexy.

If you are not used to sex toys, and if this is your first dildo, try starting at your comfortable width. Measure your man and use that width, or if you are not sure, perhaps try a thinner width like 1 inch. This way you can experience sex toys inside you, and get to know your own body comfortably. Take your time, and when it comes time when you are craving something bigger, then look around and try the next size up.

If you are experienced with sex toys, then you might already know what you like. If this is your first dildo, even though you like sex toys, then can pick a larger size and should not have a problem. Perhaps try something 1.5 inches to 2 inches wide, as dildo sex toys are different than other sex toys, but they still have your cravings in mind.

To use a dildo for the first time, try and keep it simple, like a standard dildo. Lubricate the dildo, and lay on your back. Place the dildo up to your vagina. Massage the lips and the clitoris, and slowly insert the dildo into your vagina. Move it around, and massage your vagina and probe it as deep as feels good. Learn your body, and experiment with your sex toys. Find out what really feels good for you, and where the sensations are mostly felt. When you decided what feels nice, and how you like to use your dildo, then try a newer model.

There are many dildo sex toys to choose from, try something ballsy if you want something new. Ballsy dildos are usually life like, with large testicles as a base. The base usually has a flat surface on the underside so you can stand it up if you like. There are also dildos that have a suction cupped base, so you can suction these sex toys to a chair, or the ledge of the bathtub for tub time fun.

If you like a squishy, fun, feminine dildo, then try a jelly dildo. These dildo sex toys are slick, and slippery when wet. You will enjoy a jelly dildo sex toys, as you can squeeze them with your vagina muscles as hard as you want, which is also great exercise.

If you want to try something realistic, go for a Cyberskin dildo. Cyberskin sex toys are the most realistic available. They are soft, smooth and feel like skin. Using a cyberskin dildo, you may even forget it is not a real man! Cyberskin sex toys are high class, and higher priced, but well worth it.
Some dildos are smooth, and some are rigid with bumps, veins, and folds for added stimulation and sensation.

This is only a simple guide to dildo sex toys. If you have more questions, don't be shy to contact the customer service of the shop you are looking at. They are there to help, and should be able to answer your questions about sex toys. If they cannot answer them, them perhaps that is not the shop for you. If the customer service portion of any website cannot answer your questions about the products they are selling, then they must not really be passionate about what they do.

Welcome to the unique and exciting world of sex toys, and enjoy the sex toys you choose.

Wednesday, September 05, 2007

Anal Sex Toys For Beginners


Some people are squeamish about letting any sex toys get close to this area of their body. Even if you are one of those people, don't you want to “try something at least once”? If the answer is yes, and sex toys around the anus is something you are willing to experience, even if it's just so you can say you have done it, then here are some tips about anal sex toys, what kinds there are, and what you should do with them. Anal sex toys are really not the intimidating, before you start, why not take some time to look through all of the different types, seizes and styles, and get your bearings of what an anal sex toy really is.

First of all, anal sex toys range from all sizes. For beginners, start small. There is no rush into a large, throbbing and inflating anal plug. The anus is a muscle like any other muscle in your body, and muscles need to be trained in order to grow, and especially get comfortable accepting sex toys. The muscle part is mostly just the opening, or the sphincter, which is what need to be trained. Like all muscles, if you go slow and work it in, eventually you can train your anus to love anal sex toys, and the sensations that they deliver.

Start with small anal toys, small ranging from a 0.5 inches to 1.25 inches wide shaft. Anything in this size should be comfortable and easy to insert. Anything larger may be uncomfortable and prove to be too large for a beginner.

Try starting with jelly anal sex toys. These are easier for beginners, as these sex toys are squeezable and squishy, which will be more comforting on the anus. Anything hard like rubber or plastic is very rigid, and will cause discomfort for someone who is not used to inserting a sex toy into their anus. Also, ensure you have sufficient anal lubrication in order to ease insertion. Anal lube is different from other lubrication because it is thicker, and will stay smeared on the sex toy better than regular water based lube. Anal lube is generally water based for easier cleaning.

For beginners, try simply inserting the anal plug of your choice and wearing it during sex. Lay on your back and let your partner do most of the work. This way you will be able to soak up all the sensations and see if you like it. Before you decide if you do like anal sex toys or not, you have to use them a couple of times. The first time will most likely be uncomfortable and awkward. The second time may also be awkward, and the third time you will begin to really feel what it is like. Now that you know what to expect, try moving around a bit, going on top or any of your favorite positions. After about a week, you will be able to really get a feel for anal sex toys, and make a decision weather or not anal sex toys are for you.

If you decide that you do in fact enjoy anal sex toys, then there are a couple of things you should try. Anal beads are a great way of increasing the sensations of your orgasm. Anal beads are small jelly, silicone, rubber, plastic, or metal beads on a string, or a jelly string or some kind of attachment to each other, and have a small retrieval ring on one end. They are most of the time graduated, which means a smaller bead at one end, and they gradually get larger. These are easy to insert, simply lubricate and slide them in. Wear them during intercourse, and right before you orgasm, grab the ring and pull them out. This will stimulate you, and you will experience an orgasm like no other! An orgasm only anal sex toys can deliver!

Once you are used to anal sex toys, and comfortable to try a new step up, then you can move to vibrating anal sex toys. These will stimulate the male prostate gland, which is considered the male G-Spot. An orgasm felt be stimulating this area i different from a regular orgasm. It is more intense and more erotic.

Females using anal sex toys experience a full feeling anus, which in turn pushes against the wall of the vagina, making it feel smaller and tighter. When a woman uses a vibrating anal sex toy, not only does it feel nice on her anus, but the man penetrating her will also feel the vibrations, which definitely benefits both partners.

If you have any question about anal sex toys, how to use them, or simply need a suggestion, be sure to contact the customer service email, phone number, or live chat on the website you are thinking of making a purchase from. That is what they are there for, and they will have no problem answering these some times embarrassing queries you may have.

Tuesday, September 04, 2007

Erection Control

There are a lot of men out there who do have issues with erection control and/or premature ejaculation, and the good news is there is an answer for you. There are a few options for you to choose from, all with their own pros and cons, but all mostly pros! There isn't a reason you should have to experience an embarrassing encounter such as not being able to hold it any more and blowing your load way to early.

Why not try an erection controlling cock ring? These are made out of a strong material such as rubber or silicone, and are built to last! Tight fitting, these rings are placed on the penis while still limp, or just semi-erect, and slid down to the base of the shaft. Using lubrication for easy removal is a great idea. Then simply let your partner arouse you and get your penis hard, or use a penis pump, and the ring will jump into action.

How it works is the ring will only let blood flow one way, into the shaft. Blood not being able to escape will ensure you keep your penis hard and ready for intercourse. This can be quite dangerous if not done properly. If you use a penis pump, you can experience blood veins bursting inside the shaft, leading to bleeding and bruising. The ring also restricts oxygen flow to the penis, which can also be potentially harmful.

To avoid this and possibly other disasters, it is not advised to wear a very tight cock ring for more than 20 minutes during an entire session. This way you can have your ultra hard on, and reduce the risk of injury. It is a good idea to visit your doctor before using a cock ring if you are not sure about your risks.

Cock rings also help in avoiding premature ejaculation by squeezing the urethra and not letting semen flow through when you are close to an erection. This should not be used as a form of birth control, as some semen may slip through, and enter the vagina.

Another way of controlling ejaculating to soon is by using a prolonging cream. These delay creams contain the ingredient Benzocaine. Benzocaine is a widely used local anesthetic that slightly numbs the head of the penis, desensitizing it, and allowing the sensations of intercourse to not feel to intense.

Benzocaine is used in many topical pain killers, and with other ingredients in medical formulas. It numbs the penis by blocking some of the sensations and telling your brain it is not good enough to ejaculate yet! Benzocaine should not be used as a pain reliever for anal sex, as pain is your body's natural way of telling you something is not right, and numbing the pain and doing it anyway can lead to major damage. As far as anal sex is concerned, it should be pain-free, and if it is not, perhaps you need more time with small anal toys to train the muscles in the anus to enjoy the sensations.

Benzocaine delay lubricants come flavored, or odorless and tasteless or with added ginseng for a stronger effect. An alternative to Benzocaine is Yohimbe, which is a natural ingredient found in the bark of the West-African Evergreen. This alkaloid is used as a treatment for erectile dysfunction, and has traditionally been used as an aphrodisiac. This ingredient is natural and a great alternative to Benzocaine.

Whatever your method, erection control and premature ejaculation can be treated and avoided easily, safely and quickly. Try different methods and see which one works best for you. Consult a physician before using a product or sex toy you are unfamiliar with and may potentially be dangerous, such as penis pumps for erection control.

Friday, August 31, 2007

Sex Toys Are Great!


Sex toys are perfect additions to a happy marriage, or relationship. They bring love, respect, and above all, hotter, wilder and kinkier sex! Bringing sex toys into your relationship will bring the two of you closer mentally, and physically, and will leave you both smiling all day long.

Sex toys also help reduce stress. A good orgasm will please a man and a woman in their minds by reducing special chemicals that ease the mind, and bring a more peaceful state. This is what our bodies are meant to feel, and when we do experience a great orgasm, we all become happier people!

Now there are many myths surrounding sex toys and health issues. Some people think vibrators for example can hurt women and they will not be able to experience a great orgasm again after they use a vibrator. This is very untrue. Anything can be dangerous, and vibrators are no exception. If used inappropriately, or for any other use, of course vibrators can be dangerous. But if a vibrator is used solely for it's use to pleasure a woman, then everything should be fine. Consulting your doctor before you invest in a vibrator if you are not sure is probably is a good idea.

But vibrators have given the pleasure of an orgasm to many women who have had operations for some types of cancers. This is a great thing for these women. They may never be able to feel the pleasure of a man again, but the intense vibrations and strong sensations of sex toys may be the only thing they have! This is a wonder to these woman, and people trying to tell them that vibrators are bad, I'm sure they have gone through enough to even bother!

There is also the example of the older couple who are still so in love, and want nothing more than to please each other. But what about the poor man who is not as young as he used to be? He may need a little bit of help getting a full erection so he can please his wife. This can be solved simply with sex toys! No embarrassing prescriptions or doctors appointments needed, simply invest in a male strap on dildo, or even just a cock ring! This way he can have is erection, and she can have her orgasm!

Besides helping many people who cannot experience sex the way others can, sex toys are all around great little additions to self pleasure! A woman taking a bath, why not take a little waterproof vibrating clit toy with her and have a real tub time experience! Just a quick little masturbation aid, she can reach her orgasm quickly and with great satisfaction!

Also for men, a masturbator can make his self pleasing time more erotic and exciting! This all has to do with the orgasm creating happy chemicals in the brain. A man wants an orgasm, as it will keep him calmer, instead of all worked up, happier, and even less horny around other women. The worst thing is a man who has a very high sexual appetite being around pretty girls and having all these thoughts running through his mind. If he goes home at night and satisfies his needs, perhaps he can control his urges and keep himself less restless! Male masturbators come in all shapes and sizes, from jelly flowers with suction chambers to mimic oral sex, to an ultra soft, ribbed tunnel surrounded by a molded vagina!

Sex toys in general are great for helping couples rekindle their sexual flame, and for simply pleasing a solo masturbation session. Whatever your reason for using sex toys, never be ashamed, and always be excited! Sex toys bring many people happiness, calmer minds, and more peace on a daily basis! So go on, and enjoy sex toys. They are not only for porn stars, and they are definitely not dirty and degrading, but rather for every adult who wants something new in their sex life. Sex toys are for everyday people and couples, and may be enjoyed privately by all kinds of partners daily, with no shame or disgrace. Enjoy your sex toys, and share your passion with your partner. Let sex toys give you better nights together, and more fantasies to share!

Thursday, August 30, 2007

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Sex Toy Review: 10 Function Love Vibe

The 10 Function Love Vibe is one of the most popular vibrators, and there are good reasons for all the fame. This vibrators is one of the most versatile vibrators available as it literally has 10 different vibrating modes to choose from. Not only that, but this vibrators is beautiful and comfortable. The perfect shimmering, fiery red for women who love the feminine sex toys.

This vibrator makes the perfect valentines day or anniversary gift for that special girl, as it is a personal gift, and the shaft of the vibrator is spotted with little red jelly hearts! What a way to say “I love you” than with a female sex toy that has hearts on it! But the hearts are of course practice, not just pretty. When the vibrator is on, the hearts act as extra stimulating bumps that will add more pleasure to the womans encounter than the standard vibrator.

The jelly is not firm, but squishy, and slightly pliable and is laced with sparkles for a glistening effect. The core of the vibrator is not solid, so you can bend and flex this vibrator any which way you want, or if you happen to be crawling around of the floor, or sitting on a chair, the vibrator will bend with your body to keep comfortable and not rigid.

The ultra sexy 10 Function Love Vibe only requires 2 AA batteries, but has all the power you could even want. Strong and quiet, this vibrator has the word 'discreet' in mind. The loudest mode is the steady-strong vibrations. The vibrations range from steady-soft to pulsing, to a kind of pumping, to some very unique vibrations to steady-strong and everything in between. The ON/OFF button is separate from the NEXT FUNCTION button, so it is easy to change the mode in a hurry, right before you orgasm, or whenever you need to try the next one. Having different functions is perfect for women to be able to create their own personal vibrator.

Besides the hearts as added pleasure nodes, the shaft of the vibrator is deeply ribbed for even more sensations! Moving this vibrator in and out will feel very sensual and very erotic for a woman. Along with all the 10 different styles of vibrations, and the extravagant ribs, this vibrator is one of the best vibrators for feeling extra sexy, and reaching your orgasm uniquely and comfortably. The design is perfect for any woman, as the shaft is only 1.75 inches wide and 7 inches insertable.

You can drop this vibrator from a decent height with out fracture or cracking. The base is plastic, and may crack, but the shaft being a durable jelly will not. It is easy to see why this sexy vibrator is one of the most popular vibrators on the market today, and why every woman should own one! Easy to keep hidden, comfortable, beautiful, versatile, flexible, powerful, strong, supple, soft, easy to clean... what more could you want in a female sex toy! Great for spoiling yourself, or for your perfect gift, ask your man for your 10 Function Love Vibe today and start enjoying your self pleasuring time more tonight!

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Sex Toys, What Are They Good For?


Sex toys are a big part of tons of peoples everyday lives. Some people use them in their jobs, and some people in private. Either way, sex toys are great for spicing up sex, taunting and teasing your partner, filling the void on those lonely nights, or just having because you love them!

The people who use sex toys in their jobs are either really exotic dancer types, or maybe fetish types, porn stars, and those types of jobs. I must admit, most people do use them only in their private lives, such as erotic sex play, kinky teasing, and that is pretty much the main use for sex toys.

Smaller clit toys are great for female masturbation, and for teasing. The powerful vibrations that most of these clit toys emit are perfect for women who love clitoral orgasms. Or try holding it up to your partners nipples and watch him squirm! For a very erotic and romantic foreplay, get him to use your clit toy on you while you simply lay back and love it.

Vibrators are of course a widely known sex toy. These were the first sex toys ever invented, and it was for medical purposes. Now days, vibrators can be found in almost every home across the globe, and theres a good reason why. Vibrators for women can be the only source of pleasure they get when their husbands are away on business or if they are in the army for example. Not only that, some women who have had certain surgeries cannot feel the pleasures of sex anymore, so they turn to a vibrator. Vibrators are very powerful, which the women can feel, returning to them the sexual pleasures they have lost.

Cock rings are useful as they help a man keep premature ejaculation under control. This is possible as the cock ring will fit tightly around the base of the shaft, and this will restrict the flow of semen. They should only be used for about 20 minutes during a sexual encounter, as they could damage blood veins by decreasing blood flow.

Cock rings also help a man maintain a strong erection. Men who have a hard time keeping their hard on strong can use a cock ring to keep the blood in the shaft. Again, only a maximum of 20 minutes for each session should the ring be worn. These cock rings are a savior for men who have erectile problems. Some of them also come with mini bullet vibrators for his partner to enjoy.

Male masturbators are great for men who are either lonely, or their spouses are away. Comfortable and safe, male masturbators are usually shaped as vagina's and made out of life like materials. They can also be made out of jelly and shaped like other things, like flowers or just cylinders. Masturbators help a man reach his orgasm quickly and strongly.

Strap on dildos are a vital part of sex play for some couples. Think of the man who is older, and just can't 'get it up' anymore. Him and his wife still love sex, but what to do if he can participate? Well, a strap on dildo will come and save the day! Strap on's for men will have a space to allow the mans real genitals to hang down below comfortably so he can still penetrate his wife and give her pleasure.

There are many other types of sex toys that have many other uses. Sex toys in general can be used for many reasons; helping an older couple who still want to enjoy sex, helping a woman who cant enjoy regular sex, a man who wants to maintain his orgasm or avoid premature ejaculation, or just add an erotic side to a couples sex life. Whatever your reason, sex toys are good for so many things, and will continue to help people express their sexuality for many years to come!

Wednesday, August 15, 2007

Sexy Anal Toys


Many people use anal toys for increased pleasure during sex, but not everyone does. This article is geared towards the people who are nervous about using anal toys, but want to try it out. I will try to help explain anal toys, how they are used, why they are used, and hopefully anal toys will be introduced into your bedroom fun!

First of all, the reason women use anal toys is when the toy is resting in her anus, it fills her up and pushes against the vaginal canal, making the canal slimmer. When her partner, or a vibrator, penetrate her, she feels it more, and so does he. To him, it feels like she is tighter and the canal is longer which will make sex for him better. For her, he massages closer and pushed in deeper, or at least thats what it feels like.

When a women uses anal beads, they will help increase her orgasm. She inserts them all the way, and right before she reaches her orgasm, pull the beads out and feel the sensations all rushing at once. This feeling for a girl is so great, making anal beads very popular for women.

For men, the anal toys will press against the prostate, which also increases sexual desire. The feeling of something pressed firmly against the prostate is almost enough in itself to get a man to reach orgasm, but during sex, it is much better. As for anal beads, its the same thing with women; place them inside and pull them out right before you orgasm.

Vibrating anal toys add to the sensations. They will help a mans prostate stimulation more than ever, and will send him into swirls of orgasmic pleasure. For women, the vibrations will arouse her and help her reach her orgasm stronger and faster.

There are different anal toy materials, from silicone to jelly and everything in between. It all depends on what you like to feel and if you like it firmer or softer. For beginners, it is recommended to start small and slowly ease into larger sized toys. Maybe starting with something super soft and small would be the best choice.

Also, when using anal toys, lots of lubrication is required. Using specialized anal lube is your best bet for the most comfort and safest use. This lube is water based, but thicker. It is made for the tight opening, so it is thicker and won't come off that easily. It does wash away with water, but it is tougher to spread, making sliding a toy in and out a lot easier and more comfortable.

Anal toys are great for couples who want more from their sex, and who are ready to try something new. Anal toys open doors to heightened orgasms and exciting new sensations that you will fall in love with! It is true that when you use anal toys for the first time, you do need to practice a couple of times before you really love it. It may seem uncomfortable at first, but once you make it part of your regular sex routine, you will start loving it in no time.

Tuesday, August 07, 2007

Anal Toys and Beads

There are a lot of misconceptions surrounding anal toys and related items, so first to clear a few of them up! There are millions of straight men who use anal toys and putt plug for sexual purposes, it is not only gay men. In fact, millions of women who use anal toys also. Anal toys are not bad for you, or dangerous, if they are used properly and cleaned adequately. Also, the anus does not naturally clean its self, so if you are an avid user of anal sex toys, you do need to use an anal douche every now and then to clean out your rectum.

Those things aside, anal toys are very exciting, and will send you into a world of erotic pleasures that only they can! For men, they will fill the anus and press against the prostate, which gives a man a very sensual feeling. This feeling makes their orgasms greater and way more explosive! Once you try it and get comfortable with it, it's hard to go back!

For women, they usually use anal toys and butt plugs also because of the full feeling, which in turn presses against their vaginal canal, slightly decreasing the size. This will make them feel tighter and longer, and a penis of vibrator thrusting in and out gives them the sensual feeling, and a heightened, more explosive orgasm.

That being said, there are many kinds of anal toys and butt plugs out there, with all sorts of functions! Mostly for men are the butt plus that are curved to pinpoint the pressure to the prostate directly. Women can of course use them, but they will satisfy men more than woman. All shapes and sizes, these butt plugs are sometime ribbed, or smooth, or jelly, or latex, or rubber.... and so on..

For women, they love the big stuffers. Anything that's mainly straight, with some bulges and some ribs. Anything with texture, as these kinds are what will fill her anus and shrink her vaginal canal. She will also love the probes, as these are meant for gentile exploration. The nerves in the anus are very sensitive, and movement will arouse her easily. There are also cute small butt plug with things on the end, like a pony tail or a feather, which make a cute little role playing toy for men and women!

Anal beads are prefect for both sexes, as they increase the pleasure of the orgasm. Simply stuff all the beads inside, and keep them there. There is usually a retrieval ring at one end for easy removal. Then have sex or use a vibrator/masturbator, and right before you orgasm, pull out the beds for an intense sensation!

You can get vibrating anal beads, and vibrating butt plugs for that matter. Also, men and women alike love inflating anal toys. These are usually probe style anal toys that have a very strong latex balloon surrounding the shaft. Once the probe is inserted, inflate the balloon with the hand pump until you have reached your comfortable size. This gives you that full feeling again.

Anal toys are great for couples; you can get a matching set of anal toys or butt plugs, and wear them together during sex! They also make a great anniversary or birthday gift for your lover. For beginners, it is highly recommended you start small and work your way larger over time. The anus is surrounded by muscles, and you need to train and gently stretch muscles, or you will rupture and tear them, leading to great pain and possibly bleeding and serious damage. At the beginning, there will be some discomfort, but once you are used to the feeling, you will learn to love it! There are starter kits with small, medium and larger butt plugs so you can get your anus trained fast, safely and easily!

Go ahead and try an anal plug or toy today, so you can start loving it tomorrow!

Friday, August 03, 2007

How To Choose The Best Adult Affiliate Program


If you are wanting to join a websites adult affiliate program, and make extra money for practically nothing, then you will need to know how to choose the most profitable, and most stable one. Considering the number of adult related websites, and how many of them have affiliate programs, choosing the best one is important if you want to see any kind of paycheck! Here are some tips to look for when deciding on an affiliate program to help make things a bit easier on you.

First of all, you need to find a website that is very visually appealing and unique. This is important because if you do not think the website is very well designed, then chances are that other people will not think so, and then they will not make a purchase. If they do not make a purchase, you do not get paid! So a website that has perfect pictures and very detailed and professional descriptions is your best bet for that fat paycheck.

You want to make sure that the site you are considering is actually a real, and professional website. If the website has an easy way of being contacted, the better. They should have an email address for customers to send all they questions to, and an email address specifically for their affiliates. Along with an easily accessible email, the site should also have another form of contact, like a phone number and/or fax number. Some other way that customers and affiliates alike can contact the site with any questions.

Now another important thing is if you want to get paid, you need to make sure the website has affiliate tracking software. This is some sort of way of seeing which affiliate has given which sale, and is important for you so you get the right amount of pay for your sales.

Now for commission rates, the standard is anywhere around 20%, and the affiliate program itself should be free to join. If you see a website that offers lets say 30%, you may think, “well that's better, for more money”. But think about this, a messy, unprofessional looking site offering a high commission rate will not generate any sales! So you won't get paid anyway! But a very clean, professional site with all the important detail to make shopping easy will get sales. Even if they offer only 20%, you have a better chance of getting paid a big fat pay check from them than you do for the messy other site.

Speaking of shopping, the website should also have an easy check out system. Clearly visible button, that works, and is quick and easy for the client. If they are stuck answering a thousand questions with pages and pages of forms to fill, they will leave and find a different website to make their purchase from.

You may want to check the websites traffic rates. If they are getting any traffic, that is a good sign. The higher the numbers are of course better, but if they are not getting any at all, this may mean they could be banned by Google. A proper website will have professional search engine techniques and optimization, and will have traffic rate.

A good selection of banners is also very nice to see on any affiliate program. If you have more selection, then you can pick ones suiting to your site, and change them up every now and then. Once you find a banner that gets a lot of clicks, then stay with that one, and you are sure to have much success!

Thursday, August 02, 2007

Cock Rings and Love Rings

Cock rings and love rings are for more than just erection control. Some kinds of love rings have mini bullet vibrators to stimulate both partners, and some have pleasure bumps, nodes and tickles that drive your partner crazy while they pump down on you. So here is an article about some of the different kinds of cock rings and love rings, and how they work.

Some jelly love rings have a loop that sits on top of the penis, and a mini bullet vibrator rests inside and when turned on, will vibrate the penis of the wearer. These vibrations will move through the penis, turning it into a wild sex machine, and the partner will be able to feel them. This is a very erotic feeling, and is a great way of experiencing small sex toys with big results.

There are jelly style material cock rings that cover most of the shaft of the penis, with bumps and ribs that will stimulate your partner as they slide over it. This will add a lot of pleasure and excitement, and will drive your partner crazy with passion! Some of these longer shaft love rings have clitoral stimulators also to add to the already great experience!

Some cock rings are rubber and kind of stretchy, but very firm. They have bumps for added stimulation, which your partner can feel when they slide down the shaft and hit the cock ring. These ones are more for avoiding premature ejaculation and maintaining your erection, but they bumps also make these very sensational sex toys.

You can get silicone cock rings that have the bumps, ridges and the mini bullet vibrator also. Silicone is stronger than jelly, will keep your erection stiff, and will keep your partner satisfied. Also some rings have dual rings, one for your penis and one for your testicles. These help keep everything in place and stimulate who is wearing it also.

There are some rings that have a hanging row of beads that bounce around and hit against your testicles while you pump in and out. They could also be inserted in the anus for added stimulation.

Take a look around, and see what you can find. There are many different styles of cock rings and love rings that will stimulate you and your partner! Remember to never wear a tight cock ring for longer than about 20 minutes, or it could risk lack of oxygen and be very harmful to your penis. Love rings and cock rings are great for adding excitement to your sex, and for keeping your kinky habit discreet. They are small and tuck away easily! Enjoy cock rings and love rings, and see which ones work best for you!

Wednesday, August 01, 2007

How To Clean and Maintain Your Sex Toys


Making sure your sex toys are cleaned properly each time you use them will ensure your sex toys are safe, and ready for you! Each different material requires different care and cleaning, but generally its a small, easy task that will keep you free from bacteria and disease.

When it comes to materials like jelly and Cyberskin, you will need to wash them well, as they are very porous materials and can retain bacteria. Sex toy cleaner is most recommended for these, as soap and water may dry them out over time. For Cyberskin type materials, including Futurotic material, Passion Skin material and all of the really life like materials need to have baby or Talc powder rubbed on them before storing them for long periods of time. This will keep them from drying out and deteriorating. You also need to wrap them in a plastic bag or something to keep the moisture in the toy. Of you leave them open to the air, they will dry out over time.

For rubber and silicone materials, it is not so porous, so it takes more for bacteria to set in. This means anti-bacterial soap and warm water will be fine. To really get in all the spaces, you will want to scrub them really well. Some of these are waterproof, so if you use them in the shower it will make clan up easier. If you wanted, sex toy cleaner would definitely work for these as well. For storing, making sure they are dry first, and store everything separately. I would also recommend wrapping them in a plastic bag for storing as well.

Plastic can be washed with anti-bacterial soap and warm water or sex toy cleaner also. Plastic is very easy to clean and dry, and you can store it by its self or wrapped in a cloth. Plastic will of course never dry out, so you do not need to moisturize or wrap in a bag.

Glass is probably the easiest material to clean. It is absolutely not porous, so you can use sex toy cleaner or anti-bacterial soap and water, or you can boil it, or even just rinse under warm water. There is no chance of the bacteria setting is if you rinse it right away, and for storing, glass sex toys usually come with a nice satin or velvet pouch to place them in.

As for lingerie and clothing items, follow the tag. Either washing or dry cleaning.

When storing your sex toys, always make sure they are not touching other sex toys. They could end up melting together, and you don't want to find out which ones will and which ones won't the hard way. Wrapping your jelly, Cyberskin, and silicone in a plastic bag while not in use is a must, and the Cyberskin types need the Talc or baby powder. Some products say you need 'Renewal Powder', but baby powder is not only cheaper, it is pretty much the exact same thing. Renewal Powder is really just a way of getting more money out of your pocket.

So make sure you clean your toys before and after every use, and especially if you are going to share them with other people. Glass is really one of the only materials recommended to share, as cleaning is easy. Have fun with your sex toys, play happy, play healthy and stay safe!