Showing posts with label healthy sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label healthy sex. Show all posts

Friday, August 31, 2007

Sex Toys Are Great!


Sex toys are perfect additions to a happy marriage, or relationship. They bring love, respect, and above all, hotter, wilder and kinkier sex! Bringing sex toys into your relationship will bring the two of you closer mentally, and physically, and will leave you both smiling all day long.

Sex toys also help reduce stress. A good orgasm will please a man and a woman in their minds by reducing special chemicals that ease the mind, and bring a more peaceful state. This is what our bodies are meant to feel, and when we do experience a great orgasm, we all become happier people!

Now there are many myths surrounding sex toys and health issues. Some people think vibrators for example can hurt women and they will not be able to experience a great orgasm again after they use a vibrator. This is very untrue. Anything can be dangerous, and vibrators are no exception. If used inappropriately, or for any other use, of course vibrators can be dangerous. But if a vibrator is used solely for it's use to pleasure a woman, then everything should be fine. Consulting your doctor before you invest in a vibrator if you are not sure is probably is a good idea.

But vibrators have given the pleasure of an orgasm to many women who have had operations for some types of cancers. This is a great thing for these women. They may never be able to feel the pleasure of a man again, but the intense vibrations and strong sensations of sex toys may be the only thing they have! This is a wonder to these woman, and people trying to tell them that vibrators are bad, I'm sure they have gone through enough to even bother!

There is also the example of the older couple who are still so in love, and want nothing more than to please each other. But what about the poor man who is not as young as he used to be? He may need a little bit of help getting a full erection so he can please his wife. This can be solved simply with sex toys! No embarrassing prescriptions or doctors appointments needed, simply invest in a male strap on dildo, or even just a cock ring! This way he can have is erection, and she can have her orgasm!

Besides helping many people who cannot experience sex the way others can, sex toys are all around great little additions to self pleasure! A woman taking a bath, why not take a little waterproof vibrating clit toy with her and have a real tub time experience! Just a quick little masturbation aid, she can reach her orgasm quickly and with great satisfaction!

Also for men, a masturbator can make his self pleasing time more erotic and exciting! This all has to do with the orgasm creating happy chemicals in the brain. A man wants an orgasm, as it will keep him calmer, instead of all worked up, happier, and even less horny around other women. The worst thing is a man who has a very high sexual appetite being around pretty girls and having all these thoughts running through his mind. If he goes home at night and satisfies his needs, perhaps he can control his urges and keep himself less restless! Male masturbators come in all shapes and sizes, from jelly flowers with suction chambers to mimic oral sex, to an ultra soft, ribbed tunnel surrounded by a molded vagina!

Sex toys in general are great for helping couples rekindle their sexual flame, and for simply pleasing a solo masturbation session. Whatever your reason for using sex toys, never be ashamed, and always be excited! Sex toys bring many people happiness, calmer minds, and more peace on a daily basis! So go on, and enjoy sex toys. They are not only for porn stars, and they are definitely not dirty and degrading, but rather for every adult who wants something new in their sex life. Sex toys are for everyday people and couples, and may be enjoyed privately by all kinds of partners daily, with no shame or disgrace. Enjoy your sex toys, and share your passion with your partner. Let sex toys give you better nights together, and more fantasies to share!

Thursday, July 26, 2007

Healthy, Happy Sex


Sex is a very healthy activity, even more so when you do it with someone you really love. As long as you're playing safe, things can go very well, you can loose weight and be happier inside. But things can get dull, and here are some tips on having healthy, happy sex.

Have sex when you feel the urge coming on. Chances are after a while, you both will have your urges at the same time, brining you closer together in the mind. Sharing this experience together is a good way for getting closer and relating to each other. This is also a good way of getting to know what each others likes and dislikes, and knowing the person inside a lot better.

As long as you are playing safe, and wearing some kind of birth control, like a condom. This prevents against STD's and pregnancy. A good idea of something to do together is to get tested if you've had other partners. Go together and get tested at the same time, this way you can get your results together and celebrate the hopeful good news.

Sex toys are of course a really great way of having healthy, safer sex. You can stimulate each other all night and wake up happy and relaxed. Try buying each other sex toys as gifts, and you can figure out more about your partner and relate to which your favorites are. If you have never used sex toys with each other, waiting to see your partners surprise when they open their gift will be unbearable!

Little things like rubbing her feet, and breakfast in bed is all sexual activities leading up to sex play. Rubbing body parts is a way of touching, which stimulates the mind to think "oh this feels good, and i love when they touch me", which will lead to "oh yes, this turns me on!". After a night of sex sex and more sex, breakfast in bed for your drowsy partner is a very cute way of saying a discreet 'thank you for last night'. The thoughtful action might even get you some morning sex! All around touching and sensitivity are important aspects of a relationship that should be shared all the time for real happiness.

Sex helps you loose calories by giving you exercise and making you sweat. Muscles you may not use very often are exercised during sex, which strengthens and tones. The faster, harder and rougher the sex is, the longer it lasts, and the number of different positions you play in are all factors of how many calories you loose, and how much muscle is strengthening. Try to last longer and make sure both of you reach your orgasm, and feel the blood rush happily through your veins!

Sex also releases endorphins in your brain that trigger "happy"! These chemicals tell your brain that you are relaxed, having a good time and are really happy, which brightens your day, and bring you closer to your partner! If you've got some kind of fetishes, like tying each other up or a foot fetish or something, make sure you fulfill them, maybe not all the time, but at least twice a week. Try role playing also for some new exotic fun!

Sex is a healthy activity for couples, and for the individual. Good, close and personal sex will bring you both together, stronger and happier. Perky up your happiness and have safe, loving and wild sex with your partner, as much as you please! This is a great form of exercise and a great way of calming and relaxing your brain, especially right before bedtime!