Valentine's Love

The holiday about love is right around the corner. If you are left without any ideas, try some of our easy Valentine's day tips guaranteed to spark the love, passion and a whole new world of intimacy. Remember, if you can't afford to give diamonds, you could always give vibrators which are a woman's best friend!

1.) Give a massage.
Intimacy and relaxation go hand in hand. Try massaging each other with lovely scented massage oil. Put on slow nature music, have only the light from a few scented candles give the room ambiance for a romantic evening. Make it a professional-caliber massage, lay her (or him) face down, naked except for a towel covering the derriere.

Massage the back, neck and arms. Move in slow circular motions, Be sure to apply lots of massage oil because you don't want any friction. Rub light and heavy, alternate and move slowly, see how they respond with moans and groans. Massage for about 15 minutes to half an hour to let them fully relax.

2.) Go from the massage to the bath.
Have a bubble bath ready for your lover. Get them to go directly from the relaxation of the massage into the relaxation of the bubble bath. The massage oils will spread into the water, making it soft and slippery. Be careful not to slip however because it will be very slippery! Use a bath pillow to support the neck. Surprise your lover with a glass of wine in the bath. Float rose petals in the tub. You can buy rose petals in a bag from any florist and they are not as expensive as you think!

3.) Enjoy extended foreplay.
If you have sex toys, now is the perfect time to bring them out. Make foreplay last as long as you can. It's like practicing Tantric sex, build up and then let them come down. Make them anticipate when you are going to allow the release of sexual tension and explode in an orgasm. Tease and please but don't go too far, you are saving the best for last!

4.) Have Aphrodisiacs on hand
Try some ancient aphrodisiacs like chocolate, oysters and hot sauce. Even if they don't really work, it's all about the fun. Chocolate has proven effects but oysters are still controversial. In my opinion, I would set up a chocolate fondue, even better, feed your lover chocolate covered strawberries in the tub.

5.) Enjoy the grand finale.
Make sex different, do something you never normally do. Use warming lubricant, leave the lights on, try a new position like the wheel barrow. You began the night slow and romantic, you built up passion, now let is explode in a new way, the intimacy of the slow romance contrasting with the vigorous sex with make your connection closer and give new meaning to the romance of Valentine's day!

Sit, Stay! Ideas For Erotic Beginner's BDSM!

Many people have the most unique, deep fantasies, often relating to dominance and submission. These fantasies usually stem from things like embarrassing naughty teacher fetishes as adolescents, or the fiendish and conniving mentality of sly teenagers. So the boy in the corner who purposely forgets his homework simply so the teacher will teach him a lesson, and the bossy girl who makes fun of the weaker ones could easily grow into the most kinky and erotically in-tune adults, and hopefully one day find each other!

Well if this is the case for you, and you've found your discipline partners but are not to sure where to begin, then here are a few ideas of this you and your partner can try to pick things up and get the punishments delivered.

It is usually pretty obvious who is the dominate one and who will play submissive, so once that is sorted, start small. Maybe one of you have some specific requests, for example someone with a foot fetish would prefer sexy shoes or boots, or someone who likes to be blindfolded may require a selection of soft eye covers! These are the small details that will mean the difference between roaring orgasms and frustration.

If you are into bondage, then try getting some sexy restraints. You can get wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs that can be used to hold your partner to a chair, post, the bed etc. Or why not try some silky bondage rope and a book on different rope tying techniques. Then you can practice tying each other up and having your way with them.

If one of you likes to role play, then cute and kinky costumes are a must. Naughty nurse, horny fireman, or perhaps something more detailed like a sweet, innocent maiden versus a blood thirsty demon of the night.

You can also add food to your fetish. Tie him up, beat him down and then gently feed him his dinner. Or get him to tie you up and tease you with strawberries and whipped cream. You can of course be vile about it as well! An idea for her: tie her up with her legs spread so she cannot bring them together, then tie up her hands behind her back and get out her favorite clitoral stimulator or vibrator. Then lube it up, and tease her with some sweet fruit and chocolate. Feed her a piece for a hint of the goodness to come, and the begin taunting her with the vibrator. Using sex toys can be a real sweet treat on its own, but this just adds some eroticism to it all!

So play around with her, poking and probing her with the vibrator, until she can barely handle it. Feed her her fruit occasionally, which will help her mentally link this sweet treat with the sensation between her legs. Also, her not being able to push her legs together will help her reach her orgasm faster, and stronger! The right before she orgasms, give her another piece of fruit and watch her amazing orgasm she will have, an orgasm so grand it will tingle all her senses!

This is just one kinky idea you can do to tease each other. Play around and get creative with your bondage gear and sexy fetishes. If he has a foot fetish, or some kind of fetish that can be tickled with sexy clothing or accessories, then why not lay him down and walk all over him with your spikiest heels and your shortest skirt! Get him to give your heel a good sucking on, and maybe he should be licking and kissing your delicate ankle... then oops! An innocent little kick in the cheek! But make sure you tie him up first, so he can't pounce on you!

Anyway you choose to play, enjoy your partner, and enjoy the sexy things you do together. Keep trying new things, and maybe invest in some kinkier sex toys or some more interesting bondage equipment! There is always bondage furniture you can get, like chairs with built in restraints and so on.

Rekindle your Relationship

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Looking Super Sexy

There are many ways to look sexy, and of course everyone is different, with their own preferences, likes and dislikes. That aside, here are a few tips on looking sexy from one point of view shared by many.

Looking sexy is of course all about feeling sexy. The more you love yourself and think you are sexy, the more others will agree with you. So going and getting your nails done, or getting a massage to make you feel better will definitely boost your ego, and others around you will see your new glow. Even just eating healthy and getting plenty of exercise will increase your energy, and happiness, showing every one around you how sexy you really are!

Visually, being sexy is whatever you make it to be. Your partner loves red high heels, so you wear red high heels, and he thinks you are so sexy! You like the tiny black bikini you bought, so you wear it, and think your sexy! Chances are many people will agree with you, and thats where this articles it pointing to, the majority vote. Everyone is different, so see what you like and don't like, and make your own aura of sexy!


Shaving your pubic area is a great way of showing your partner that you are maintaining your body image, and that you want to be a little kinky! Try shaving into a shape, like a heart or a lightning bolt! The ultra sexy shave is the landing strip, which is a thin line of hair left from the top of your lips up about 2 or 3 inches. The width should only be a ¼ inch to a ½ inch, in that area somewhere. Now razor burn is of course ugly and painful, so there are shaving creams that are specially formulated for coarse pubic hair.


Another way to blow your partner away is by wearing a strap on! If he loves anal toys, why not try something new? Strap on dildos come in all shapes and sizes, from very small to very large, and with all sorts of harnesses. Why not get a super sexy leopard print harness with matching eye mask, or a strap on that will satisfy you too, like this female strap on. You're partner would be floored to see you strut out in gorgeous strap on harness and dildo!

Cute lingerie is always a stunner! A sexy peek-a-boo lace bikini will stop him in his tracks, or if you want to see him beg for your body, throw on an angelic white number, like this sexy satin bikini. Whatever you choose, lingerie is a tempting and erotic way of telling your partner that you want him to want you! You could do a bikini top with a strap on dildo for a ultimate entrance! The look on his face would be one of lust, and hangar, for you!

Whatever you choose to do to make yourself look great, make sure you always like it before anyone else. Once you've pleased yourself, chances are he will love it! Something like lounging around the house Saturday morning wearing a wireless strap-on clitoral stimulator will satisfy you, and he won't believe how hot of a partner he has! Try something new, and see the reaction you get. If you love it, then he will most likely think you look super sexy!

Get In Touch With Your Sexy Side

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Healthy, Happy Sex

Sex is a very healthy activity, even more so when you do it with someone you really love. As long as you're playing safe, things can go very well, you can loose weight and be happier inside. But things can get dull, and here are some tips on having healthy, happy sex.

Have sex when you feel the urge coming on. Chances are after a while, you both will have your urges at the same time, brining you closer together in the mind. Sharing this experience together is a good way for getting closer and relating to each other. This is also a good way of getting to know what each others likes and dislikes, and knowing the person inside a lot better.

As long as you are playing safe, and wearing some kind of birth control, like a condom. This prevents against STD's and pregnancy. A good idea of something to do together is to get tested if you've had other partners. Go together and get tested at the same time, this way you can get your results together and celebrate the hopeful good news.

Sex toys are of course a really great way of having healthy, safer sex. You can stimulate each other all night and wake up happy and relaxed. Try buying each other sex toys as gifts, and you can figure out more about your partner and relate to which your favorites are. If you have never used sex toys with each other, waiting to see your partners surprise when they open their gift will be unbearable!

Little things like rubbing her feet, and breakfast in bed is all sexual activities leading up to sex play. Rubbing body parts is a way of touching, which stimulates the mind to think "oh this feels good, and i love when they touch me", which will lead to "oh yes, this turns me on!". After a night of sex sex and more sex, breakfast in bed for your drowsy partner is a very cute way of saying a discreet 'thank you for last night'. The thoughtful action might even get you some morning sex! All around touching and sensitivity are important aspects of a relationship that should be shared all the time for real happiness.

Sex helps you loose calories by giving you exercise and making you sweat. Muscles you may not use very often are exercised during sex, which strengthens and tones. The faster, harder and rougher the sex is, the longer it lasts, and the number of different positions you play in are all factors of how many calories you loose, and how much muscle is strengthening. Try to last longer and make sure both of you reach your orgasm, and feel the blood rush happily through your veins!

Sex also releases endorphins in your brain that trigger "happy"! These chemicals tell your brain that you are relaxed, having a good time and are really happy, which brightens your day, and bring you closer to your partner! If you've got some kind of fetishes, like tying each other up or a foot fetish or something, make sure you fulfill them, maybe not all the time, but at least twice a week. Try role playing also for some new exotic fun!

Sex is a healthy activity for couples, and for the individual. Good, close and personal sex will bring you both together, stronger and happier. Perky up your happiness and have safe, loving and wild sex with your partner, as much as you please! This is a great form of exercise and a great way of calming and relaxing your brain, especially right before bedtime!