Friday, February 06, 2009
Valentine's Love
1.) Give a massage.
Intimacy and relaxation go hand in hand. Try massaging each other with lovely scented massage oil. Put on slow nature music, have only the light from a few scented candles give the room ambiance for a romantic evening. Make it a professional-caliber massage, lay her (or him) face down, naked except for a towel covering the derriere.
Massage the back, neck and arms. Move in slow circular motions, Be sure to apply lots of massage oil because you don't want any friction. Rub light and heavy, alternate and move slowly, see how they respond with moans and groans. Massage for about 15 minutes to half an hour to let them fully relax.
2.) Go from the massage to the bath.
Have a bubble bath ready for your lover. Get them to go directly from the relaxation of the massage into the relaxation of the bubble bath. The massage oils will spread into the water, making it soft and slippery. Be careful not to slip however because it will be very slippery! Use a bath pillow to support the neck. Surprise your lover with a glass of wine in the bath. Float rose petals in the tub. You can buy rose petals in a bag from any florist and they are not as expensive as you think!
3.) Enjoy extended foreplay.
If you have sex toys, now is the perfect time to bring them out. Make foreplay last as long as you can. It's like practicing Tantric sex, build up and then let them come down. Make them anticipate when you are going to allow the release of sexual tension and explode in an orgasm. Tease and please but don't go too far, you are saving the best for last!
4.) Have Aphrodisiacs on hand
Try some ancient aphrodisiacs like chocolate, oysters and hot sauce. Even if they don't really work, it's all about the fun. Chocolate has proven effects but oysters are still controversial. In my opinion, I would set up a chocolate fondue, even better, feed your lover chocolate covered strawberries in the tub.
5.) Enjoy the grand finale.
Make sex different, do something you never normally do. Use warming lubricant, leave the lights on, try a new position like the wheel barrow. You began the night slow and romantic, you built up passion, now let is explode in a new way, the intimacy of the slow romance contrasting with the vigorous sex with make your connection closer and give new meaning to the romance of Valentine's day!
Monday, September 22, 2008
Home Made Costumes Ideas for Halloween

Looking for that perfect Halloween costume? Here are a few ideas on costumes that will stop any man dead in their tracks and give you that sexy look you are after. Besides the spooky costumes like a witch or a devil, you can be something sweet like a French maid or a wild dominatrix!
A fancy fairy is a sweet costume to bring out your flirty side. This costume can be easy to put together. Simply get some accessories like a wand and a tiara from a dollar store or discount shop. You can get the dress from a thrift store and add your own fun extras like lace, beads, extra layers etc with fabric you either have laying around or from various other clothing pieces you find at the thrift store!
A French maid costume can be maid simply by wearing a sexy, short black dress and add a skimpy waist apron and a feather duster. Make sure to put of lots of sexy make up to make you look a little sluttier, as the whole French maid idea is supposed to be seductive and sexy! Wear this costume with a sleek pair of fish net stockings and some tall heels and you've got a perfect costume!
Another easy costume is a cute waitress! Get yourself a small pink dress and apron and a pad of paper. You can take your partners kinky order and give them only the best service money can buy! If you have any sexy lingerie, wear it underneath any of your kinky costumes and surprise your partner with a hot body after they take your costume off of you!
This can be an incredibly sexy holiday, and can be the perfect occasion for kinky play! Incorporate your favorite sex toys with your hot costumes and make it a Halloween to remember!
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Forever Foreplay!
Sex is fun, and sex with sex toys is even better. But what bout foreplay? If you are lacking in your sex life, perhaps the problem is a shortage of foreplay! Fore play includes acts such as sexy talk, passionate kissing, smooth massages, tongue teasing, tickling and taunting, naughty nibbling on various body parts: ears, neck, arms, fingers, legs, tummy, bums and so much more. You can get creative with your foreplay sessions to keep things mixed up and erotic! Incorporate sex toys with your fun foreplay and experience a whole new level of sexy preparation. Use a small vibrator to tease your partners lips, breasts, feet, and both his and her naughty bits! Finger vibrators are great for foreplay as they are worn around one finger, making it easier to loose yourself in the moment without loosing control or dropping the toy!
Sweet feathers can tickle your partner in a sexy way! Gentle tickling is very erotic and
stimulating. Get your partner to lay on their back cover their eyes with a silky eye mask. Then use a feather tickler to gently stroke them beginning at the top and slowly working your way down! Having their eyes closed will add to the sensation, making it impossible to resist grabbing you and giving it to you! You may even have to tie them down with some sexy restraints!
Rub your partners feet deeply until they are in a state of total relaxation. Then move up to massage their ankles, knees, thighs and then a slow but steady massage in between the legs! Anything you choose to do should be sexy and stimulating. Keep your partners pleasure in mind, and you'll be surprised how much more you get our of it! Getting prepared for your sexy time with some hot foreplay will add so much exotic and heavy pleasure to the sex, try it and see!
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Wild Nights with Other Couples
Are you looking into having a three-some, or want to experience the thrills of group excitement but are nervous and don't have a clue where to begin? Once you and your partner-couple, or multiple couples, have decided all of you want to try it, then there is one simple way that is fun and will open the door to your most adventurous experience; why not try an adult board game! There are many types of adult board games that are best kept to one couple, however there are equally as many that can be played with multiple couples! These games are not only super fun, they will help you get more comfortable with the idea of being naked in front of your friends! Call up your closest couple and ask them to come over and play a kinky adult game with the two of you! Add a little alcohol, or keep it straight edge and enjoy an erotic and sensational new way of spending Friday nights!
Not all of these adult board games are incredibly physical and sexual, you can get some that are simple and sexy, yet still rather closed and comfortable. Start small and add a little humor to your group time! Playing an adult board game is a great way of connecting on a more personal level with the couple you desire. Both couples will surely be ready to step it up a notch after playing an exciting, humorous and all around pleasureful adult board game! Include as many couples as you can!
Friday, August 15, 2008
Why Wear a Thong?
If you are unsure about wearing a thong, but are curious about all the buzz, this article breaks down this taboo undergarment into it's different functionality and style categories. This should help you see the brighter side to wearing less underneath, giving you more in the long run!
This style of thong is for a practical and comfortable wear. While still being super sexy, this style of thong will keep you feeling “in place” and snug. The elastic waistband provides the perfect fit and support, while the thong style back allows you to wear a sleek work pant or a cute mini skirt and never reveal embarrassing panty lines!
A sexy string thong reveals your curvaceous figure and adds a simple yet incredibly spicy addition to your body! This is the thong that drives men wild, and keeps that slight hint of mystery! Men will beg to sneak a peek of whats underneath! You can be completely naked except a string thong, and this will automatically make you 100% sexier! These thongs are great for enticing and seducing your lover, and make you feel a little sexier also! These thongs can also be worn under your everyday clothing.
A wide side strap on a thong is great for practical wear and keeping your curves looking great. The perfect alternative to a string thong, the wider strap is comfortable and the thong style is still sexy! These style thongs are similar to everyday thong, only these thongs are made from lace, silk, satin, or any other luscious material. This thong will drop any man to his knees and have him begging for more!
These thongs come with a matching top piece. Something like a bustier, baby doll, halter, bikini top, or any other type of sexy piece. These outfits are known more as “lingerie”! The top piece is usually the main attraction, followed down the body by the complementing thong. In this case the thong is not the center of attention, but boosts the look and ties the whole outfit together.
Planning a special romantic evening for two? Be sure to include dessert, but not just any dessert... you need a Fancy Thong! These thongs may have fringe, beads, diamonds, glitter, tassels or any kind of delicate addition that differentiates this thong from an everyday or a string thong. These thongs are only worn for sexy encounters when you need to look your best!
Bring out your wild, feminine side with a Fantasy thong! This type of thong is also only worn once in a while, as it will have much more detail and flare than a Fancy thong. Fantasy thongs give more creativity to your romantic encounter, and can even lead to role playing! Fun, flirty and all around super sexy, Fantasy thongs are glamorous and enchanting!
All things bondage come alive with the addition of a Fetish thong. These thongs are usually made from leather, vynal, rubber or any other unusual material. These thongs are going to be tight and very sexy. They will usually be black colored, but do not have to be. Typically, a fetish style thong matches perfectly with s blindfold and some sexy bondage restraints! These thongs can have chains, zippers or any other decorations that are farm from girlie. These decorations are taunting and fierce, with a flare for dominance!
A girl's best friend! Vibrating thongs add pleasure to everyday occasion. You can wear a vibrating thong while washing dishes, vacuuming, dusting, or get wild and wear one to the grocery store! Vibrating thongs stimulate the clitoris and get her in the mood for more. These thongs can also sometimes accommodate him as well. This means the vibrating piece will rest against the clitoris and the rest will be easy access for him. These thongs are designed for wear during intercourse.
Purely novelty, these thongs are fun and sexy! Wear this thong and let your lover eat it off you, piece by piece! These thongs come as candy, or as a thin layer of chocolate, strawberry or any flavor of edible material. These thongs make great romantic gifts!
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
How to Make Sex More Comfortable

If you enjoy sex and like to experiment with a variety of sexual positions, you might suffer from a sore leg or kinked wrist in between your sexual encounters and position changing. That is probably the only downside to exciting sexual positions, your limbs don't really co-operate!
The following are some tips and ways that you can make sex more comfortable on your arms, hands, legs, feet back and virtually any other body part that gets in the way of sex!
1.)Prop with a pillow.
You can use any type of pillow but the harder type seems to work better. You can purchase a sex pillow or use your own that you sleep on at night. You can also use a throw pillow from your sofa.
The purpose of the pillow is to thrust your pelvis upward to allow easy penetration. You can allow use the pillow to rest the head during oral sex to prevent a kink in the neck.
The larger pillows work well for sexual intercourse and the smaller more square pillows work better for oral sex, in fact, a throw pillow is almost essential when doing a 69 oral sex because quite often, one partner will be larger then the other and one partner;s head won't be able to rest easily on the mattress or floor or wherever you may be.
2.) Swing into it.
Using a sex swing is a common way to make sex more comfortable but it's not all it's hyped up to be. Be careful because injuries can result from sex swings when a partner swings into a wall or flips over on their head! Sex swings do however offer you a fun way to have foreplay.
If you wan to experiment with foreplay and make it fun and exciting, a sex swing is a great ay to enjoy something different in your love life. It's not as comfortable as you think it might be, but it relieves pressure off the legs since you are held up high and it is fun so for the right couple, a a sex swing is fantastic addition to your love life.
3.) Slinging along.
A sex sling is the ultimate way to keep your legs un cramped and your back nice and limber. There are a variety of sex swings that hold up legs and necks. You can freely enjoy virtually any sexual position if you adjust a sling.
The most popular types of sex slings feature a padding that your neck rests on and the loops are for your feet. They are adjustable and meant to be used during wheel barrow sex positions and for when the woman lies o the bed and the man stands in front of her.
Another type of sex sling is the doggies style sling which is juts as the name says, it supports the tummy so that the body can be held up and you can enjoy sexual intercourse doggie style. It reduces the strain on the arms and allows for a great night of animalistic sex!
4.) Tie it up.
Bondage restraints are an overlooked way of making sex more comfortable. By typing your lover to your bedpost, you are doing them a favor by holding the limbs so they don;t have to. It creates more comfort and enables more excitement during sex because your lover can focus on what you are doing to them rather then trying to keep their hands up.
There are many ways to retain your lover like with handcuffs or leg cuffs and there are even adjustable clamps and straps that you can use in intricate ways to keep them in one place for as long as you desire.
These simple tips are great ways to keep sex more comfortable for both lovers to allow them to enjoy the best of the intimate act and to engage fully into any sexual fantasy they desire without having to worry about the strain on the limbs.
Tuesday, July 01, 2008
Rabbit Vibrators vs. G-Spot Vibrators
The g-spot vibrator allows internal orgasms and the rabbit vibrator allows external orgasms. Many people debate that there is a difference between the two, but gynecologists have studied sexual response in women have noticed that there are two different types of orgasms, the internal orgasm and the external orgasm.
The internal orgasm is brought on by g-spot stimulation and feels more like clenching muscles inside, followed by a craving for penetration. Many women fake this sort of orgasm during sex because it is not possible to achieve this during regular sex in missionary position unless the man's penis is curved upwards.
There are a few sexual positions that enable g-spot stimulation during sex such as doggie style or with the use of a pillow propping up the woman's lower back, but every woman agrees that the best way to stimulate the g-spot for the best orgasm is with a g-spot vibrator. For those who love the internal muscle spasms and feeling of deep penetration, this vibrator is your best friend.
Next is external orgasm which is given by the rabbit vibrator. This amazing creation is for clitoral stimulation which is the easiest form of orgasm for women. Easy and well known because the feel is very intense, it feels as is the clitoris itself itself is having the orgasms, you can feel the difference as it occurs outside and brings tingling feeling to your whole body.
Many women crave penetration at the time of clitoral orgasms so in this case, a bullet vibrator leaves more to be desired, since they are made to be used during sex only, the man should be penetrating and filling that desire for penetration This is exactly what the rabbit vibrator is designed to do, offer the replacement penis should the man not be present to provide the filling feeling.
Which is better? Neither, they are both essential for complete sexual satisfaction. That is not the question really because in order for a woman to really feel sexually whole, she needs to experience both types of orgasms.
Many women will get bored with the same orgasm time after time so it is best to stock up with one of each type and vary the sexual feel. Give yourself the type of orgasm you want at the time you want it, that is the best way!
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Fun and Sexy Internet Reading
This new erotic thoughts blog has interesting perspectives on things regarding sexuality, and sexually suggestive themes in our society. I am very excited to follow this blog becuase her writings are very good and thought provoking!
This second blog is also written by the same author and is a study on sexuality in advertising. A great side-project and ideas for thesis about human sexuality. If you are a college student studying these aspects on society, the sex in advertising blog is of great interest to you.
A final blog by the same author again is called How To Be Sexy. Here she has some fun reads about various ideas and tips on how to have more fun with your sexuality.
We are very honored to mention her new blogs because they have great original content and are a lot of fun to read. We enjoy reading unique articles about sex just as much as you do and want to share what we find! New articles will be added regularly so check back to see what crazy ideas she comes up with next! Enjoy!
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Sit, Stay! Ideas For Erotic Beginner's BDSM!

Many people have the most unique, deep fantasies, often relating to dominance and submission. These fantasies usually stem from things like embarrassing naughty teacher fetishes as adolescents, or the fiendish and conniving mentality of sly teenagers. So the boy in the corner who purposely forgets his homework simply so the teacher will teach him a lesson, and the bossy girl who makes fun of the weaker ones could easily grow into the most kinky and erotically in-tune adults, and hopefully one day find each other!
Well if this is the case for you, and you've found your discipline partners but are not to sure where to begin, then here are a few ideas of this you and your partner can try to pick things up and get the punishments delivered.
It is usually pretty obvious who is the dominate one and who will play submissive, so once that is sorted, start small. Maybe one of you have some specific requests, for example someone with a foot fetish would prefer sexy shoes or boots, or someone who likes to be blindfolded may require a selection of soft eye covers! These are the small details that will mean the difference between roaring orgasms and frustration.
If you are into bondage, then try getting some sexy restraints. You can get wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs that can be used to hold your partner to a chair, post, the bed etc. Or why not try some silky bondage rope and a book on different rope tying techniques. Then you can practice tying each other up and having your way with them.
If one of you likes to role play, then cute and kinky costumes are a must. Naughty nurse, horny fireman, or perhaps something more detailed like a sweet, innocent maiden versus a blood thirsty demon of the night.
You can also add food to your fetish. Tie him up, beat him down and then gently feed him his dinner. Or get him to tie you up and tease you with strawberries and whipped cream. You can of course be vile about it as well! An idea for her: tie her up with her legs spread so she cannot bring them together, then tie up her hands behind her back and get out her favorite clitoral stimulator or vibrator. Then lube it up, and tease her with some sweet fruit and chocolate. Feed her a piece for a hint of the goodness to come, and the begin taunting her with the vibrator. Using sex toys can be a real sweet treat on its own, but this just adds some eroticism to it all!
So play around with her, poking and probing her with the vibrator, until she can barely handle it. Feed her her fruit occasionally, which will help her mentally link this sweet treat with the sensation between her legs. Also, her not being able to push her legs together will help her reach her orgasm faster, and stronger! The right before she orgasms, give her another piece of fruit and watch her amazing orgasm she will have, an orgasm so grand it will tingle all her senses!
This is just one kinky idea you can do to tease each other. Play around and get creative with your bondage gear and sexy fetishes. If he has a foot fetish, or some kind of fetish that can be tickled with sexy clothing or accessories, then why not lay him down and walk all over him with your spikiest heels and your shortest skirt! Get him to give your heel a good sucking on, and maybe he should be licking and kissing your delicate ankle... then oops! An innocent little kick in the cheek! But make sure you tie him up first, so he can't pounce on you!
Anyway you choose to play, enjoy your partner, and enjoy the sexy things you do together. Keep trying new things, and maybe invest in some kinkier sex toys or some more interesting bondage equipment! There is always bondage furniture you can get, like chairs with built in restraints and so on.
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
Take Care Of Your Sex Dolls!

So your looking for a sex doll, and you finally decided which one you want. Maybe she is a bit busty, or maybe she is oh so realistic, but either way, you need to care for your sex doll to ensure you get the maximum pleasure from her, and so she will last as long as she can!
As excited as you are, you try and calm yourself as you answer the door. The polite mail carrier hands you over your plain brown box, oblivious to its sweet contents. You, on the other hand, are as giddy as a young boy getting his first blow job! You practically rip the package out of the carriers hands, and slam the door behind you as you run up the stairs. Ripping open the package, your eyes widen with amazement at your beautiful new babe in a box! Get out your sex doll hand pump, and begin inflating your new sex slave.
Now, for your first use, you want to inflate and make sure there are no small rips, tears or anything that will allow the air to escape. The manufacturers are very specific when producing these sweet pleasure dolls, so most likely your doll will be in perfect condition. But, it's best to check. Inflate and let her sit for a couple of hours. If everything is good, then get ready to dive into your sexy slut!
Apply a water based lubrication to yourself, and to any area you are going to insert your penis or fingers, or toys or whatever.. Water based lubrication is important, as other lubricants may harm the latex material. Always consult the instructions booklet before using, but for the lower end dolls, try not to put too much weight on your doll, or it may not be able to handle it, and can burst. They are typically very strong, and your manual will be able to tell you exactly how much weight your doll can hold. For the higher end dolls, they are usually made from a stronger, more life like material and will be able to withstand more weight.
Clean your doll well after every use with sex toy cleaner, or with an anti-bacterial soap and warm water. This is important as the holes that will take your bodily fluids may have crevasses and folds that need to be flushed out in order to stay sanitary. Bacteria can build up if you do not clean your doll properly. The higher end dolls will usually have removable vaginal and anal areas for easier cleaning.
As for the expensive realistic dolls, many have life like features like beautiful flowing hair, glimmering eyes, full luscious lips and notched mouths for the most intensely orgasmic experience you can enjoy over and over.
Weather you like the big booty dolls with extra junk in their trunks, or the slutty super star sex dolls, you will enjoy having a sexy companion with that “never say no” attitude! As long as you take care of your sex dolls and don't leave them stranded on a beach some where, they should last you a long time, for night after night of hot lovin' and explosive cummin'!
Friday, January 04, 2008
Have a Sexy New Year!

Welcome to 2008! To all those who have made a new year's resolution to have a sexy year, stay tuned becuase we will have many new posts about making yourself feel sexy! For the men out there, we will have male sex tips as well.
First this tip is for both women and men. A great little idea to put a spark back into the relationship. This is not actually about the sex act itself, but more about sharing intimacy.
Book a room at a local hotel, get the honeymoon suite with a jacuzzi and pack a few things. First, don't let your lover know where they are going, drop them little hints for a few days. Let them know that a one-day vacation is coming and to be excited, it will be just like when you first met. Build up the anticipation like before the first time you ever had sex. Let them know where they are going the morning that you check in your hotel so they can have time to shower and primp themselves for the most erotic evening! If this is a new relationship, it is a great way to get to know each other in a private, romantic setting.
Here's what to pack:
1. A bottle of water-based lubrication
2. A bottle of erotic massage oil
3. A vibrator and a vibrating penis ring
4. A blindfold
5. A feather
6. Scented candles
7. Your sexiest underwear
With these ingredients, you can have a great night, think of it as a second honeymoon. Play and tease each other all night long. Set the mood with scented candles and loose yourself in each other's embrace. It may seem like a simple idea, but it will be a way to break into your sexiest new year's resolution ever!
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Male Masturbators

Men need sex toys too, it can't be all only for women! Male masturbators are fantastic sex toys that stimulate and arouse specifically men. Made for men, these sex toys know what you need, where you need it, and how to please it!
Some male masturbator sex toys are designed for visual stimulation as well as physical. These are the ones shaped like or molded from real life pussies. These masturbators are the most life like sex toys available, and high end ones will even feel like real skin. These realistic ones are made from Cyberskin, or Futurotic material, which are the closest materials to real life skin. These sex toys are well worth their money, as the experience of masturbating with a real life, plush, lush and supper soft pussy is one you'll never want to pass up!
Some male masturbator sex toys are made from materials such as jelly and silicone. These can be shaped like vagina's, or maybe something a little more imaginative, like a flower or just a cylinder. These masturbators really get the job done, especially the silicone ones. These are soft, stretch, pliable, flexible, and most importantly, comfortable. These masturbators are not really for visual stimulation, but they are perfect for satisfying you and relieving you of any sexual tension.
Masturbation sleeves are simply cylinder shaped piece of material, like jelly, silicone, latex, rubber, cyberskin etc. that are usually ribbed for added stimulation. These are easy, quick and satisfying. Simply slip your manhood in the masturbation sleeve and begin thrusting.
Lubrication is required for easy insertion, and comfortable thrusting. Silicone lube should not be used for silicone sex toys, as the material can melt. If you do use silicone lube, your experience will be more pleasureful than if you use water based lube, as silicone lube never dries up or stops being slippery. This is the best lube for masturbating, you can go as quick as you want, as rough as you want, and silicone lube will keep up perfectly!
Some male masturbation sex toys have a sucking function. These mimic oral sex, and arouse the man with a light suction. This will feel just like a little virgin girls mouth on your manhood, giving you her first blow job, the best blow job! Well, not necessarily, but it does feel very erotic, and very sensual.
There are male masturbation sex toys that has beads inside the material that massage your penis while you use it. Thrust yourself in and out, and feel the erotic pleasures of the masturbating beads. They usually don't move, but they can move around with the material.
Realistic male masturbation sex toys don't always have to be vagina's either, there are some that are shaped like a pretty girls rear. These masturbation asses are tight and mostly always ribbed. They are made to visually stimulate you, and if you like giving anal sex, then these masturbators are for you!
Which ever you choose, male masturbators will get the job done and satisfy you how ever you need it! Male sex toys are very pleasureful and unique, and have helped men all over the world enjoy their masturbation moments more.
Monday, September 10, 2007
What A Sex Doll Is Really Like

This article is based on cheaper sex dolls, ranging from $25.00 to about $40.00. The more money you put into your sex doll, like any sex toys, the better quality you will get. For a low end sex doll, this sexy gal sure has enough pleasure packed in to satisfy even the most erotic man, any time of day or night.
Everyone must admit, the best thing about a sex doll is that she will NEVER say no! If you want to take her in the morning, in the afternoon, or right before dinner, she is ready and willing to please, tease and satisfy you. Another great feature of sex dolls is that most of them can come in the shower with you, as they are waterproof.
Made from ultra-soft vinyl, these cheaper sex dolls are pretty durable, but will probably not last for more than 4-5 months of regular use. Once you receive your sex doll, she has to be blown up, preferably with a foot pump. There are two hygienic factory seals you must peel off before you being using her; one covering her anus, and one covering her vagina. This ensures a safe, hygienic sex doll for you. You will also need to use proper lubrication for comfort and easy insertion. Like most sex toys, she is a novelty only and should be respected as one.
Should a rupture should occur in your sex doll, there is a vinyl repair kit enclosed. Follow the instructions to repair your sex doll.
Most of these cheaper sex dolls measure 5'1”, and have a beautiful, real life painted face. Sex doll sex toys have three love holes for you to please, one in her mouth, one in her anus and one in her vagina. Each tunnel measures 5 inches long, varying from doll to doll. The mouth tunnel is colored pink, as well as the vagina, and the anus is the same color as the rest of her, for a more realistic visual effect. For cheaper sex dolls, the rigid edges of the holes may be a little uncomfortable, but using a condom or lining the edges with a soft cloth will help. The holes are reinforced for added durability and strength, so you can go crazy and not break her!
Her breasts are very busty and large, for your visual pleasure! Also, if you like a “titty-fuck”, then her large, heaving breasts are perfect for you. They measure 7 inches long and 5 inches wide, depending on the doll of course. Her nipples are hard and strong for you to suck on and squeeze. You could even get your girl some nipple clamps to spice her up a bit!
Why not mix it up a bit, and use sex toys on your sex doll. Try a inserting a vibrator in her anus while you have your way with the vagina. This will add some extra pleasure for you and your erotic tendencies!
This standard sex doll information is for cheaper sex dolls only. The more money you deiced to spend on your sex doll sex toys, the better quality you will receive. If you want a sex doll that will last you years, then you will be paying around $600.00 - $900.00. These high end sex dolls will also come more life like. Some have sockets on the elbows and knees that can be bent for more flexibility and life-like movements. Also, the expensive sex dolls will have lush openings that will not be uncomfortable for you to penetrate.
The high end sex dolls may also have a real mannequin head with real hair and moving eyes. These dolls can also be seamless and way softer, with real life color and feel. Depending on how much money you spend on your sex doll will depend on what quality you get, just like all sex toys. The less you spend, the less you get. These cheaper sex dolls will do the trick and satisfy you, and also make great gag-gifts. If all you are looking for is a one night stand, or a short couple of months with a companion, then a cheaper gorgeous gal is perfect for you and your budget. You know you are curious, why not indulge in your fantasies, and buy yourself a sex doll!
Friday, September 07, 2007
Pleasure Balls

Pleasure balls are small sex toys that are used by women all over the world. They are part of history, and are said to have originated in Japan. The Japanese women would use them to relieve sexual tension, and store them in a small pouch. Ben Wah balls, or pleasure balls, are small, plastic/metal balls attached together by a cord, or are simply separate and float independently. In Japan, many years ago, they are said to have been made from metal or ivory.
Some pleasure balls are simple, solid balls, and some are known as Duotone Balls, as they have one larger ball, with a smaller, weighted ball inside. The weight will roll around, and the larger outer ball will follow, making the movements erratic and spontaneous.
They are used by women to increase sexual desire, to exercise the vaginal muscles, and to increase sensations felt during sexual intercourse. A woman can wear them all day if she wishes, as long as she can squeeze her muscles and keep them in. A sneeze or a cough can cause the balls to fall out of the vagina.
To use Ben Wa Balls, simply place them inside the vagina, and hold them in by squeezing your muscles. Similar to squeezing your bladder, which is why these have been used by gynecologists to help women with bladder control problems control them. As you go about doing your daily routine, the balls will move around inside, giving you slight teasing sensations. Pleasure balls can be used during intercourse, if done carefully, and may also be used with other sex toys.
A women holding in the pleasure balls in is a form of Kegel exercise, which strengthens the pubococcygeus muscles. This can help control the bladder, and heighten sexual pleasure. Ben Wa Balls are types of sex toys that are solely for women.
During intercourse, wearing your Ben Wah balls will heighten sensations for a man as he will be able to feel them inside the woman. They will roll around his penis and massage him erotically. For the woman, she feel the balls move around inside her as the man pumps in and out. Rough sex is not recommended while wearing pleasure balls.
You can also wear your pleasure balls during masturbation with sex toys. Since Ben Wa Balls are sex toys already, why not add more sex toys! Try wearing your pleasure balls while using a vibrator gently, and massaging yourself while enjoying the internal massaging of the balls.
Mix your pleasure balls with your sex toys, or with your intercourse, or simply wear them to strengthen your vaginal muscles, which will increase your sex in the long run. Ban Wah balls are popular, comfortable and very beneficial for women. See your gynecologist if you are not sure about using Ben Wa Balls. Enjoy your sex toys, and have fun playing with pleasure balls.
Thursday, September 06, 2007
Dildos For Beginners

If you have never used a dildo before, and are curious about them, then here is a simple guide to help give you some insight on dildos, how to use them, and how the feel. There are many different materials and styles of dildos, all with the purpose of pleasure and sensations you will love to share with your partner, or keep to yourself. Sex toys are wonderful things, and dildos are definitely part of that!
Dildo's are great for women who are working their way into the wonderful world of sex toys, have no previous experience, and are not sure what they like. Unlike other sex toys, dildo's do not vibrate, but they do have features that make them real, comfortable and sexy.
If you are not used to sex toys, and if this is your first dildo, try starting at your comfortable width. Measure your man and use that width, or if you are not sure, perhaps try a thinner width like 1 inch. This way you can experience sex toys inside you, and get to know your own body comfortably. Take your time, and when it comes time when you are craving something bigger, then look around and try the next size up.
If you are experienced with sex toys, then you might already know what you like. If this is your first dildo, even though you like sex toys, then can pick a larger size and should not have a problem. Perhaps try something 1.5 inches to 2 inches wide, as dildo sex toys are different than other sex toys, but they still have your cravings in mind.
To use a dildo for the first time, try and keep it simple, like a standard dildo. Lubricate the dildo, and lay on your back. Place the dildo up to your vagina. Massage the lips and the clitoris, and slowly insert the dildo into your vagina. Move it around, and massage your vagina and probe it as deep as feels good. Learn your body, and experiment with your sex toys. Find out what really feels good for you, and where the sensations are mostly felt. When you decided what feels nice, and how you like to use your dildo, then try a newer model.
There are many dildo sex toys to choose from, try something ballsy if you want something new. Ballsy dildos are usually life like, with large testicles as a base. The base usually has a flat surface on the underside so you can stand it up if you like. There are also dildos that have a suction cupped base, so you can suction these sex toys to a chair, or the ledge of the bathtub for tub time fun.
If you like a squishy, fun, feminine dildo, then try a jelly dildo. These dildo sex toys are slick, and slippery when wet. You will enjoy a jelly dildo sex toys, as you can squeeze them with your vagina muscles as hard as you want, which is also great exercise.
If you want to try something realistic, go for a Cyberskin dildo. Cyberskin sex toys are the most realistic available. They are soft, smooth and feel like skin. Using a cyberskin dildo, you may even forget it is not a real man! Cyberskin sex toys are high class, and higher priced, but well worth it.
Some dildos are smooth, and some are rigid with bumps, veins, and folds for added stimulation and sensation.
This is only a simple guide to dildo sex toys. If you have more questions, don't be shy to contact the customer service of the shop you are looking at. They are there to help, and should be able to answer your questions about sex toys. If they cannot answer them, them perhaps that is not the shop for you. If the customer service portion of any website cannot answer your questions about the products they are selling, then they must not really be passionate about what they do.
Welcome to the unique and exciting world of sex toys, and enjoy the sex toys you choose.
Wednesday, September 05, 2007
Anal Sex Toys For Beginners

Some people are squeamish about letting any sex toys get close to this area of their body. Even if you are one of those people, don't you want to “try something at least once”? If the answer is yes, and sex toys around the anus is something you are willing to experience, even if it's just so you can say you have done it, then here are some tips about anal sex toys, what kinds there are, and what you should do with them. Anal sex toys are really not the intimidating, before you start, why not take some time to look through all of the different types, seizes and styles, and get your bearings of what an anal sex toy really is.
First of all, anal sex toys range from all sizes. For beginners, start small. There is no rush into a large, throbbing and inflating anal plug. The anus is a muscle like any other muscle in your body, and muscles need to be trained in order to grow, and especially get comfortable accepting sex toys. The muscle part is mostly just the opening, or the sphincter, which is what need to be trained. Like all muscles, if you go slow and work it in, eventually you can train your anus to love anal sex toys, and the sensations that they deliver.
Start with small anal toys, small ranging from a 0.5 inches to 1.25 inches wide shaft. Anything in this size should be comfortable and easy to insert. Anything larger may be uncomfortable and prove to be too large for a beginner.
Try starting with jelly anal sex toys. These are easier for beginners, as these sex toys are squeezable and squishy, which will be more comforting on the anus. Anything hard like rubber or plastic is very rigid, and will cause discomfort for someone who is not used to inserting a sex toy into their anus. Also, ensure you have sufficient anal lubrication in order to ease insertion. Anal lube is different from other lubrication because it is thicker, and will stay smeared on the sex toy better than regular water based lube. Anal lube is generally water based for easier cleaning.
For beginners, try simply inserting the anal plug of your choice and wearing it during sex. Lay on your back and let your partner do most of the work. This way you will be able to soak up all the sensations and see if you like it. Before you decide if you do like anal sex toys or not, you have to use them a couple of times. The first time will most likely be uncomfortable and awkward. The second time may also be awkward, and the third time you will begin to really feel what it is like. Now that you know what to expect, try moving around a bit, going on top or any of your favorite positions. After about a week, you will be able to really get a feel for anal sex toys, and make a decision weather or not anal sex toys are for you.
If you decide that you do in fact enjoy anal sex toys, then there are a couple of things you should try. Anal beads are a great way of increasing the sensations of your orgasm. Anal beads are small jelly, silicone, rubber, plastic, or metal beads on a string, or a jelly string or some kind of attachment to each other, and have a small retrieval ring on one end. They are most of the time graduated, which means a smaller bead at one end, and they gradually get larger. These are easy to insert, simply lubricate and slide them in. Wear them during intercourse, and right before you orgasm, grab the ring and pull them out. This will stimulate you, and you will experience an orgasm like no other! An orgasm only anal sex toys can deliver!
Once you are used to anal sex toys, and comfortable to try a new step up, then you can move to vibrating anal sex toys. These will stimulate the male prostate gland, which is considered the male G-Spot. An orgasm felt be stimulating this area i different from a regular orgasm. It is more intense and more erotic.
Females using anal sex toys experience a full feeling anus, which in turn pushes against the wall of the vagina, making it feel smaller and tighter. When a woman uses a vibrating anal sex toy, not only does it feel nice on her anus, but the man penetrating her will also feel the vibrations, which definitely benefits both partners.
If you have any question about anal sex toys, how to use them, or simply need a suggestion, be sure to contact the customer service email, phone number, or live chat on the website you are thinking of making a purchase from. That is what they are there for, and they will have no problem answering these some times embarrassing queries you may have.
Tuesday, September 04, 2007
Erection Control
There are a lot of men out there who do have issues with erection control and/or premature ejaculation, and the good news is there is an answer for you. There are a few options for you to choose from, all with their own pros and cons, but all mostly pros! There isn't a reason you should have to experience an embarrassing encounter such as not being able to hold it any more and blowing your load way to early. Why not try an erection controlling cock ring? These are made out of a strong material such as rubber or silicone, and are built to last! Tight fitting, these rings are placed on the penis while still limp, or just semi-erect, and slid down to the base of the shaft. Using lubrication for easy removal is a great idea. Then simply let your partner arouse you and get your penis hard, or use a penis pump, and the ring will jump into action.
How it works is the ring will only let blood flow one way, into the shaft. Blood not being able to escape will ensure you keep your penis hard and ready for intercourse. This can be quite dangerous if not done properly. If you use a penis pump, you can experience blood veins bursting inside the shaft, leading to bleeding and bruising. The ring also restricts oxygen flow to the penis, which can also be potentially harmful.
To avoid this and possibly other disasters, it is not advised to wear a very tight cock ring for more than 20 minutes during an entire session. This way you can have your ultra hard on, and reduce the risk of injury. It is a good idea to visit your doctor before using a cock ring if you are not sure about your risks.
Cock rings also help in avoiding premature ejaculation by squeezing the urethra and not letting semen flow through when you are close to an erection. This should not be used as a form of birth control, as some semen may slip through, and enter the vagina.
Another way of controlling ejaculating to soon is by using a prolonging cream. These delay creams contain the ingredient Benzocaine. Benzocaine is a widely used local anesthetic that slightly numbs the head of the penis, desensitizing it, and allowing the sensations of intercourse to not feel to intense.
Benzocaine is used in many topical pain killers, and with other ingredients in medical formulas. It numbs the penis by blocking some of the sensations and telling your brain it is not good enough to ejaculate yet! Benzocaine should not be used as a pain reliever for anal sex, as pain is your body's natural way of telling you something is not right, and numbing the pain and doing it anyway can lead to major damage. As far as anal sex is concerned, it should be pain-free, and if it is not, perhaps you need more time with small anal toys to train the muscles in the anus to enjoy the sensations.
Benzocaine delay lubricants come flavored, or odorless and tasteless or with added ginseng for a stronger effect. An alternative to Benzocaine is Yohimbe, which is a natural ingredient found in the bark of the West-African Evergreen. This alkaloid is used as a treatment for erectile dysfunction, and has traditionally been used as an aphrodisiac. This ingredient is natural and a great alternative to Benzocaine.
Whatever your method, erection control and premature ejaculation can be treated and avoided easily, safely and quickly. Try different methods and see which one works best for you. Consult a physician before using a product or sex toy you are unfamiliar with and may potentially be dangerous, such as penis pumps for erection control.
Friday, August 31, 2007
Sex Toys Are Great!

Sex toys are perfect additions to a happy marriage, or relationship. They bring love, respect, and above all, hotter, wilder and kinkier sex! Bringing sex toys into your relationship will bring the two of you closer mentally, and physically, and will leave you both smiling all day long.
Sex toys also help reduce stress. A good orgasm will please a man and a woman in their minds by reducing special chemicals that ease the mind, and bring a more peaceful state. This is what our bodies are meant to feel, and when we do experience a great orgasm, we all become happier people!
Now there are many myths surrounding sex toys and health issues. Some people think vibrators for example can hurt women and they will not be able to experience a great orgasm again after they use a vibrator. This is very untrue. Anything can be dangerous, and vibrators are no exception. If used inappropriately, or for any other use, of course vibrators can be dangerous. But if a vibrator is used solely for it's use to pleasure a woman, then everything should be fine. Consulting your doctor before you invest in a vibrator if you are not sure is probably is a good idea.
But vibrators have given the pleasure of an orgasm to many women who have had operations for some types of cancers. This is a great thing for these women. They may never be able to feel the pleasure of a man again, but the intense vibrations and strong sensations of sex toys may be the only thing they have! This is a wonder to these woman, and people trying to tell them that vibrators are bad, I'm sure they have gone through enough to even bother!
There is also the example of the older couple who are still so in love, and want nothing more than to please each other. But what about the poor man who is not as young as he used to be? He may need a little bit of help getting a full erection so he can please his wife. This can be solved simply with sex toys! No embarrassing prescriptions or doctors appointments needed, simply invest in a male strap on dildo, or even just a cock ring! This way he can have is erection, and she can have her orgasm!
Besides helping many people who cannot experience sex the way others can, sex toys are all around great little additions to self pleasure! A woman taking a bath, why not take a little waterproof vibrating clit toy with her and have a real tub time experience! Just a quick little masturbation aid, she can reach her orgasm quickly and with great satisfaction!
Also for men, a masturbator can make his self pleasing time more erotic and exciting! This all has to do with the orgasm creating happy chemicals in the brain. A man wants an orgasm, as it will keep him calmer, instead of all worked up, happier, and even less horny around other women. The worst thing is a man who has a very high sexual appetite being around pretty girls and having all these thoughts running through his mind. If he goes home at night and satisfies his needs, perhaps he can control his urges and keep himself less restless! Male masturbators come in all shapes and sizes, from jelly flowers with suction chambers to mimic oral sex, to an ultra soft, ribbed tunnel surrounded by a molded vagina!
Sex toys in general are great for helping couples rekindle their sexual flame, and for simply pleasing a solo masturbation session. Whatever your reason for using sex toys, never be ashamed, and always be excited! Sex toys bring many people happiness, calmer minds, and more peace on a daily basis! So go on, and enjoy sex toys. They are not only for porn stars, and they are definitely not dirty and degrading, but rather for every adult who wants something new in their sex life. Sex toys are for everyday people and couples, and may be enjoyed privately by all kinds of partners daily, with no shame or disgrace. Enjoy your sex toys, and share your passion with your partner. Let sex toys give you better nights together, and more fantasies to share!
Thursday, August 30, 2007
Rekindle your Relationship
Wednesday, August 29, 2007
Penis Pumps For Penis Enlargement

Many think penis pumps to be one of two things: a wave of the future, or the most dangerous thing you can do to your favorite bits. Well, in reality penis pumps fall into both of these categories, but mostly in between. Penis pumps have helped many men, but can be very dangerous if not used properly. With some simple care and no overuse, penis pumps may be successful for you in more ways than one.
To get one messy theory out of the way, penis pumps do not really give you “more length”. This is pretty much impossible to do without painful surgery and months of recuperation. Instead what they do is help you get a raging hard on! So for men who have a hard time getting an erection in the first place, or for men who want a slightly larger erection than your natural erection, penis pumps are one of the most helpful tools.
So to use a penis pump, always follow the instructions provided with your pump. Before you beginning using your penis pump, it is best to massage and stretch your penis for 3-5 minutes to get it warmed up and ready to go. A warm body, penis and scrotum will pump easier and safer, and the blood will flow easier. It is always easier if you lubricate your penis before beginning, this way when you go to remove your penis from the pump, it will slide out easily and not pull painfully.
Next, slide your penis in to the plastic tube, and make sure the seal at the base is secured and air locked around the base of your penis. Do not insert your testicles into the pump, as they are not part of the pumping process! Begin pumping slowly; no pain or discomfort should be felt when pumping. Once again, read your instructions to know what pressure you should pump to. You should always use the minimum amount of pressure needed to reach your erection.
Only pump until you have reacher an erection slightly larger than your natural erection, but be careful. Improper use of a penis pump can result in rupturing blood vessels under the skin or inside the shaft of the penis, which can lead to hemorrhaging and other medical conditions. If ANY discoloration or major pain should be experienced, see a medical professional straight away.
If you follow the instructions and never exceed the minimum pressure you need to reach your erection, everything should work fine, and you should be able to enjoy a rockin' hard on! 99% of penis pumps will come with a quick release valve for added safety. Once you are finished pumping, simply push the quick release valve to release the pressure.
Some penis pumps are simple, and some have fancy additions, like a vibrating tongue at the top that will tickle your head while you pump, getting you way more aroused for intercourse. These little added functions are a great addition to any pump, but do not interferer with the pumping process.
Enjoy your new penis pump, and never forget to read the instructions fully before beginning. Make sure you wash your pump thoroughly as to not grow bacteria in the tube. Also, discontinue use and see a medical professional if any discomfort, pain, swelling or discoloration should be a result of use. Have fun and love your new, bigger erection!








