Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Sit, Stay! Ideas For Erotic Beginner's BDSM!

Many people have the most unique, deep fantasies, often relating to dominance and submission. These fantasies usually stem from things like embarrassing naughty teacher fetishes as adolescents, or the fiendish and conniving mentality of sly teenagers. So the boy in the corner who purposely forgets his homework simply so the teacher will teach him a lesson, and the bossy girl who makes fun of the weaker ones could easily grow into the most kinky and erotically in-tune adults, and hopefully one day find each other!

Well if this is the case for you, and you've found your discipline partners but are not to sure where to begin, then here are a few ideas of this you and your partner can try to pick things up and get the punishments delivered.

It is usually pretty obvious who is the dominate one and who will play submissive, so once that is sorted, start small. Maybe one of you have some specific requests, for example someone with a foot fetish would prefer sexy shoes or boots, or someone who likes to be blindfolded may require a selection of soft eye covers! These are the small details that will mean the difference between roaring orgasms and frustration.

If you are into bondage, then try getting some sexy restraints. You can get wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs that can be used to hold your partner to a chair, post, the bed etc. Or why not try some silky bondage rope and a book on different rope tying techniques. Then you can practice tying each other up and having your way with them.

If one of you likes to role play, then cute and kinky costumes are a must. Naughty nurse, horny fireman, or perhaps something more detailed like a sweet, innocent maiden versus a blood thirsty demon of the night.

You can also add food to your fetish. Tie him up, beat him down and then gently feed him his dinner. Or get him to tie you up and tease you with strawberries and whipped cream. You can of course be vile about it as well! An idea for her: tie her up with her legs spread so she cannot bring them together, then tie up her hands behind her back and get out her favorite clitoral stimulator or vibrator. Then lube it up, and tease her with some sweet fruit and chocolate. Feed her a piece for a hint of the goodness to come, and the begin taunting her with the vibrator. Using sex toys can be a real sweet treat on its own, but this just adds some eroticism to it all!

So play around with her, poking and probing her with the vibrator, until she can barely handle it. Feed her her fruit occasionally, which will help her mentally link this sweet treat with the sensation between her legs. Also, her not being able to push her legs together will help her reach her orgasm faster, and stronger! The right before she orgasms, give her another piece of fruit and watch her amazing orgasm she will have, an orgasm so grand it will tingle all her senses!

This is just one kinky idea you can do to tease each other. Play around and get creative with your bondage gear and sexy fetishes. If he has a foot fetish, or some kind of fetish that can be tickled with sexy clothing or accessories, then why not lay him down and walk all over him with your spikiest heels and your shortest skirt! Get him to give your heel a good sucking on, and maybe he should be licking and kissing your delicate ankle... then oops! An innocent little kick in the cheek! But make sure you tie him up first, so he can't pounce on you!

Anyway you choose to play, enjoy your partner, and enjoy the sexy things you do together. Keep trying new things, and maybe invest in some kinkier sex toys or some more interesting bondage equipment! There is always bondage furniture you can get, like chairs with built in restraints and so on.

Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Take Care Of Your Sex Dolls!

So your looking for a sex doll, and you finally decided which one you want. Maybe she is a bit busty, or maybe she is oh so realistic, but either way, you need to care for your sex doll to ensure you get the maximum pleasure from her, and so she will last as long as she can!

As excited as you are, you try and calm yourself as you answer the door. The polite mail carrier hands you over your plain brown box, oblivious to its sweet contents. You, on the other hand, are as giddy as a young boy getting his first blow job! You practically rip the package out of the carriers hands, and slam the door behind you as you run up the stairs. Ripping open the package, your eyes widen with amazement at your beautiful new babe in a box! Get out your sex doll hand pump, and begin inflating your new sex slave.

Now, for your first use, you want to inflate and make sure there are no small rips, tears or anything that will allow the air to escape. The manufacturers are very specific when producing these sweet pleasure dolls, so most likely your doll will be in perfect condition. But, it's best to check. Inflate and let her sit for a couple of hours. If everything is good, then get ready to dive into your sexy slut!

Apply a water based lubrication to yourself, and to any area you are going to insert your penis or fingers, or toys or whatever.. Water based lubrication is important, as other lubricants may harm the latex material. Always consult the instructions booklet before using, but for the lower end dolls, try not to put too much weight on your doll, or it may not be able to handle it, and can burst. They are typically very strong, and your manual will be able to tell you exactly how much weight your doll can hold. For the higher end dolls, they are usually made from a stronger, more life like material and will be able to withstand more weight.

Clean your doll well after every use with sex toy cleaner, or with an anti-bacterial soap and warm water. This is important as the holes that will take your bodily fluids may have crevasses and folds that need to be flushed out in order to stay sanitary. Bacteria can build up if you do not clean your doll properly. The higher end dolls will usually have removable vaginal and anal areas for easier cleaning.

As for the expensive realistic dolls, many have life like features like beautiful flowing hair, glimmering eyes, full luscious lips and notched mouths for the most intensely orgasmic experience you can enjoy over and over.

Weather you like the big booty dolls with extra junk in their trunks, or the slutty super star sex dolls, you will enjoy having a sexy companion with that “never say no” attitude! As long as you take care of your sex dolls and don't leave them stranded on a beach some where, they should last you a long time, for night after night of hot lovin' and explosive cummin'!

Friday, January 04, 2008

Have a Sexy New Year!

Welcome to 2008! To all those who have made a new year's resolution to have a sexy year, stay tuned becuase we will have many new posts about making yourself feel sexy! For the men out there, we will have male sex tips as well.

First this tip is for both women and men. A great little idea to put a spark back into the relationship. This is not actually about the sex act itself, but more about sharing intimacy.
Book a room at a local hotel, get the honeymoon suite with a jacuzzi and pack a few things. First, don't let your lover know where they are going, drop them little hints for a few days. Let them know that a one-day vacation is coming and to be excited, it will be just like when you first met. Build up the anticipation like before the first time you ever had sex. Let them know where they are going the morning that you check in your hotel so they can have time to shower and primp themselves for the most erotic evening! If this is a new relationship, it is a great way to get to know each other in a private, romantic setting.

Here's what to pack:
1. A bottle of water-based lubrication
2. A bottle of erotic massage oil
3. A vibrator and a vibrating penis ring
4. A blindfold
5. A feather
6. Scented candles
7. Your sexiest underwear

With these ingredients, you can have a great night, think of it as a second honeymoon. Play and tease each other all night long. Set the mood with scented candles and loose yourself in each other's embrace. It may seem like a simple idea, but it will be a way to break into your sexiest new year's resolution ever!